OK. i love this girl. i dated her for liek 2 months. she played me and ran back to her ex. he treat her like crap. she lies for him and covers up for him. he doens't love her but she loves him deeply and thinks he does. i wanna date her but its not gonna happen. Her BF lied to her and told her i said stuff i didn't and broke up with her again. Now she calls me crying cause she wants him back and in order to do that i ahve to call him and lie to him. She said if i don't she'll enevr talk to me again and we won't be freinds. Now should i
1) call and lie to him and send the women i love into another guys arm who is gonna abuse her
2) throw away our friendship and completly lose this girl i love out of my life, but save her form herself?
please answer
2006-12-03 13:05:37 · 11 answers · asked by DA-LL /Male/ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't comprimise your belief's over this, don't call him, stand firm. when he dumps her again and treats her bad, she will see u as someone she wants to be with. don't have any part of this sick scheme of her's to get back with this jerk. she will speak to u again when she figures this guy out. don't loose respect for yourself in being part of this. she will respect u more for it.
2006-12-03 13:12:02 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
O.K., it sounds to me that you are still fairly young and believe me when I say that this is just the beginning. It might be very hard for you to do because of your feelings for her, but you need to cut all ties with her. Don't call anyone on her behalf and lie for her just so she can go back to "HIM'. The fact that she even asked you to do this for her shows how little she cares about your feelings. I am a female and I have been through it all more than once and I guarantee that if you take this advice and just cut her off, no calls, no chats, no favors for her, she will eventually realize what she has lost, even if she see's it as just a friendship that she had with you, she will feel the loss and then maybe she will take you and your feelings in to consideration and have a bit more respect for you. I am not saying never be her friend again, because you don't want to end it on a hateful note, I am just saying step out of the box for a month or so and take care of you. Let her worry about herself and make sure you surround yourself with people who truly care about you and will help put your mind on more pleasant things for a bit.
2006-12-03 13:23:07 · answer #2 · answered by itsjustme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. forget everything.
how good is you r love for her - if you cant make her understand this small - easy to understand thing. do you think she would be able to stay with for even a while. answer is no.
trust me bud - i have been in a situation like this a couple times - it can never work out(i am pretty good at understanding things and making people understand), despite of that i could never change their minds.
u can not be her bf - but yes you can be her friend - as a friend - try getting her out of this relation - moreover at the moment she does not need a bf but a friend to guide her.
get her out of this crap and may be then u would have a chance. but u'll need to have patience and you would have to stick with her to help her out .
2006-12-03 13:39:11 · answer #3 · answered by i don know y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever you can to get her OUT of your life. I am sorry to sound mean but she is NO good for you and the position she has put you in. She doesn't Love you like you Love her, and that is not fair to you.
I know it hurts but she will play you as long as you let her. Oh sure she will come running back to, but she is not your friend either.....your just a tool for her.
Anyone that truly cared would NOT use you like that and then have the GUTS to rub your face in it!!!!!
I wish you luck dude!
2006-12-03 13:10:59 · answer #4 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend won't ask you to lie for them so they can get back with their ex boyfriend.
Stay out of that drama! She wants to be in that mess and let her. Don't let yourself get dragged into it all. It is not easy to give up someone you love. It may be too early to see things clearly for yourself...but hindsight is crystal clear and you will see that this wasn't a great situation to begin with. If she is begging and threatening you so she can go back to an abusive man then she isn't someone that I would want in my life.
Stop being her caretaker and take care of you!
Best wishes!
2006-12-03 13:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by KeeCee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
consistent with possibility uncharted first in case you have already got military video games by way of fact it particularly is somewhat extra unique than call of accountability 4 even however call of accountability 4 is a splash diverse by way of fact it particularly is a extra present day conflict yet nevertheless killing an opposing military continues to be fantastically lots the comparable no count what you play when you purchase uncharted you may shop some extra and get call of accountability 4 later
2016-10-13 23:01:28 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look whats happening is that u love her right and thats not good why? because u justa have been dating just like 2 months and u cant love a person that quick u can care for her yeah sure but u know what just leave her alone leave her alone just call the boyfriend and tell him what she wanted and u know what just stop caring for her just ditch yher theres more purdy gurls for u!! shes not the only one!! good luck ciaooo ciaooo
2006-12-03 14:30:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is horrible! They are using you as a go between. That's not fair to you.
You sound like a sweet guy. Don't you think you deserve better?
YOU can't save her. Even though you want to so badly, she has to save herself.
Think about you for a change. Good luck : )
2006-12-03 13:22:31 · answer #8 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DRAMA!
Ditch her. Find a girl that isn't taken already and using you to get back at her boyfriend. This girls a manipulative one!
She's not the love of your life. If she was, she would treat you well.
2006-12-03 13:09:25 · answer #9 · answered by lovebluenfluff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save yourself!! and put her out of ur life, can't u see she;s in love with him! I'll say to u RUN like HELL and don't look back!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-03 13:18:21 · answer #10 · answered by Kas-O 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋