How do you tell your husband that you are pregnant when he doesn't want to be yet?

Question

This is our forth kid and we talked about maybe having another one so we could have 2 girls and 2 boys, but he doesn't want one now, just the other week we found out a friend of ours is pregnant (our youngests are the same age) and he said to me that I better not be.

Answer 1

Well it took two... So just tell him straight out. If he doesn't like it tough... you didn't do it alone. I know it sucks, but it's not like you did it on purpose. I think the longer you wait ... the worse it'll get.
Good luck... hope all goes well.

Answer 2

I had the same problem with my husband! We have twins who are 2 1/2 and i am now 23 weeks pregnant with #3 our last!!! Well what i told hubby who didnt want anymore at the time, i simply said, you slept with me knowing it could happen!! haha. We hadn't even decided after the twins if we were having anymore, but now its great and we are both excited...although it took almost a month for hubby to come around! Be patient, let him react however he feels he needs to....he might be mad at first, but he might suprise ya and be excited! good luck and congrats!

Answer 3

Well, as long as you didn't 'oops' him by not taking your birth control properly or putting holes in his condoms, then you should have nothing to worry about especially since, you already have too many kids. He probably likes being a father. He'll come around.

Answer 4

Just tell him outright! it takes two to tango.

Or you could say, honey, do you know why you never see any baby trains?

Cause the big ones pull out on time!

you didn't!

Answer 5

you're just going to have to tell him. he helped create it, so there isn't really much that he can say.

Answer 6

He'll come around to it when he knows that you are...
He loves you!