how do i get over her?

Question

i dated her for a month then she broke up with me saying i liked her more than she liked me and it wasnt fair then we went out again for another month i got her bday presents and we started saying i love you, she said she ment it but i dont know anymore. we broke up the 2nd time she says cuz it wasnt fair to me that i never got mad at her flirting with other guys. to me i never got mad cuz i knew she liked me. now 2weeks on the day she has another boyfriend and i dont know how to feel anymore. i feel like i have to get over her but i cant cuz i still love her. everything i do reminds me of her nomatter what it is. my friends tell me to just move on cuz she has but i cant and i dont know why. i dont know what to think anymore i wish i could just get a time machine and go back but i know i cant. she was every thing i ever wanted and i really want her back but i dont know what to do. she says she still wants to be friends but i want more than that. plz help me out

Answer 1

Best way to get over anything, especially a failed relationship: CLIMB!

Answer 2

It would never work because she doesn't feel the same way about you. Could you and why would you want to be in a relationship with someone who evidently doesn't love you as passionately as you say you love her? She's already said she flirts with other guys. Did she do this when you two would be out together? If so, how could you stand to let someone disrespect and show such disregard for your feelings?

Don't you deserve better than that? You should move on and find someone who will love you the way you deserve to be loved. You can remain friends platonically but a serious relationship with her would only end up breaking your heart

Answer 3

You cannot force someone to feel what you feel and it will take time to move on but u need to do it as for the friends thing I would tell her for now you need time to readjust that you two are no longer together and she moved on I hate to say this but it sounds like you were the rebound guy so on that note be strong start getting over here by knowing that someday you will find someone else that will want to be with you and will love you for a life time she was not the one for you but someone else out there is HUGS

Answer 4

Unfortunatley, there are no cures for a broken heart. You just have to tough out the next few days, and get on your feet a.s.a.p. Try not to think of anything else but going forward and moving on. You have to, so do it with your head up and a smile, Feeling good is the best revenge, anyway! Good luck,friend

Answer 5

This sounds exactly like the life story of one of my best friens. Zack. He though he was in love with my best friend lora, and I thought they were perfect together. But then Lora broke up with him. I felt so bad for him. i know that he still loves her very much. Honestly, i don't know what to tell you. Except that she may just not love you. I know that it is very hard and for that i'm sorry. But it sounds like you have very good friends so stick with them and listen to they're advice. They seem to know what they are talking about. It may be hard to get back out into the real world but you do need to date other people. If you want to think of it this way you could always find a girl who's realy hott and smart and show her up. But mainly listen to your friends. They will stick with no longer and harder than any girl ever could.
Wishing you best of luck.
Summer S.

Answer 6

you dont get over her.




JOKES.

anyways actuallyy....
get over her. her reaosns for breaking up with you were ridicoulous. ure friends are right, she is OBVIOUSLY getting over you, so you need to do the same. She wants to be friends, then try that out, but if its too hard for you, and the temptation gets to great... say fuuck that, im out, and just don't talk to her anymore. There is nothing more anoyyingly pathetic that a guy who wont stop liking a girl after theyve broken up more than once.

-good luck!

Answer 7

my friend it is called a heart break. and yes it does hurt like hell, been there and done it.but the up side is that you will live, and for her to jump right into another relationship this soon is a bad idea. i know of a ton of woman who would kill to have someone like you. the best thing i can say is give yourself time. heal first before you move on.

Answer 8

her reasons for the continuous break up sounds like excuses that she made up when in reality she never really felt the same about you as you did for her..if she really loved you enough to be with you then she wouldnt of made excuses to break off the realtionship she would of stayed with you..i know that you really cared about this girl and still do but time will heal..keep busy and see other people..if it was really meant to be with this girl then she will come to realize what she is missin out on..

Answer 9

that is very difficult, to get soemone to love you, when they can't. truthfully nothing, but do what you enjoy and try to be more, that is all. and if you want turn to the negitive side of that person such as: what did she ever do for me? what has she done for me? what would she do for me? nothing now. be better than her but do it because you want to not because of her. again i will say there is rarley ever anything you can really do but cry and mourn. i have been through it is HARD

Answer 10

I'm sorry, but you were taken advantage of.
IF she gets upset because you didn't make a fuss because she flirted with other guys, well then let her find one.
She stayed with you untill she got gifts then split.
Leave her alone, get on with you life, sooner or later you will find someone who will apprecaiate you for who you are, not what you can do for them.

Answer 11

There is someone else that will love you back. She has moved on and you will too. Everytime u think of her just say I MOVED ON. Dont think of her. Everytime you do say I MOVED ON. over and over again untill you are sick. It works ok