Should they be jerks and complete a__holes, or treat them with respect and always do what the women want. Where do you draw the line?
2006-12-03 12:39:06 · 19 answers · asked by gadzzooks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good question. Well I don't think being an Ahole will work. Treat them with respect, but if they are asking a whole lot that you aren't comfortable with then try to compromise if that doesn't work then you need to hunt somebody else, because most women aren't pushy and will usually ask or suggest something.........not demand something.
2006-12-03 12:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by Satin Sheets 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Think Frank Sinatra, think Niezchte. I've always treated women with respect, however, only be nice when you have to....end of story. Be a mans man, not some "what do you wanna do?" type of guy. When a chick hops into the car and you ask her what she wants to do then you're a pussy.... Have a damn plan.....ALWAYS....and remember, even if things aren't that fun or didn't work out for the best it's your fault and that's how she likes it. You need to take the blame for everything because it doesn't matter whose fault it is because it's you and a female.....so it's always your fault no matter what. Take fault in stride and even feed off of it and a woman will love you for it. Take charge in the bedroom always....take her to an extravagent dinner and the opera and then take her home, slap your cock across her face and then *** on her face....plain and simple. Tell her she's going to like it and train her....it's what a woman respects and any chick that says otherwise is either a lesbian or hasn't found the man that will have the balls to do so. Remember that....women can be 30 and still not have found that guy.... Women want a take charge guy with a plan, even if things suck you can always go in a closet and ****. The most important thing is to not allow things to bother you....being emotional about a dog or a movie is perfectly fine, women like it, however whenever there is a situation at hand to take care of, never get afraid and never worry.....just handle the best you can because they respect action and disrespect a guy being mamby pamby. And one more thing, don't put lip balm on in front of a woman......ever. be well, Jack
2006-12-03 12:46:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Does everyone here see just in BLACK or WHITE? Pushover or jerk--let me see--treat them with respect & ..."always do what they want?" There's no "line" to be drawn, & if you don't know the "balance" I doubt anyone can give you any advice. Sorry, guy.
Edit: I didn't mean some of your very good answers in the "black or white" thing, I meant YOU. A careful think to some of them just might help you.
2006-12-03 12:44:11 · answer #3 · answered by Psychic Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one wants a push over, men or women.
There are two kinds of women: 1) women who want to be treated honestly and with genuine care and 2) women who want the jerk who cheats on them and puts them down.
Your choice should be simple: stay away from women who like drama and you'll find a huge number of nice and balanced women who'll like you just exactly the way you are.
2006-12-04 02:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u want to treat them somewhere in the middle cuz face it guys,we don't want a pushover,but we dont want an asshole either.voice ur opinion sometime not all the time.woman want to know u can make up ur mind but dont want to hear it all the time.if also depends on what ur willing to take from a girl too.girls can be pretty emotional & indecisive about what they really want.i'm the perfect example.when i had a guy who did too much for me it was boring & i thought wata wuss,then i had a guy who treated me like garbage & i wanted the other guy back.we really want someone in the middle.try it it works.good luck.
2006-12-03 12:49:03 · answer #5 · answered by angela w 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well...dont a jerk but yes treat them with respect. But just respect her, don't let her be the "man" of the relationship, if you do that, she will loose respect for you and your image will drop very low in her eyes...she wants a man, not a little boy. So act like a man, respect her, but dont let that respect let her walk all over you because in the end, she will look at you less of a man, even though all you tried to do was be kind to her. Trust me, i did this to my husband and his image of a man went down, but we fixed it. It's a gray area, nothings black and white. They want "tough" guy image with a sweet big heart. Some like that "toughness in bed too, depending on the girl. I hope that helps. Good luck with finding a woman..we're a difficult to understand for guys :-)
2006-12-03 12:46:26 · answer #6 · answered by ooks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat women with respect but don't give in to their every whim and fancy. As a female myself I know better. I like a guy who is confident and plays mind games with me, not someone I can push around :)
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2006-12-03 12:42:14 · answer #7 · answered by sensualsophia.com 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just be yourself, but don't be so easy..... women like a lil bit of a challenge, but not so much that they have to nag... hope that helps .. good luck
2006-12-03 12:48:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends, there are women out there who love to be bossed around and told what to do, and many want to be the bosses. Its kind of like the bad boy thing, some like bad boys and some like the goodie goodie boys. Same with many guys, some like to be with either a princess or a vixen.
2006-12-03 12:43:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I say treat the women with respect women like men that are confident but are not so push over but no one needs to be with a jerk either so be yourself someday someone will love you for you it will all work out HUGS
2006-12-03 12:41:18 · answer #10 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋