Recently i started wondering this..
Personally i think i am fat.
Im 6'4 weight 225pounds
I dont smile a whole lot.
I dont talk a whole lot either.
Here is a photo
http://i32.photobucket.com/albums/d39/im... (since its alrdy on my PC i just used it..)
Is it because i am ugly that the girl i have a major crush doesnt act like she like me back?
What are somethings i can do to make myself become more suitable for her?
She is a outgoing person... i really want her..
2006-12-03 12:39:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i calculated your bmi and it is coming up saying your over weight, maybe loose 10 pounds, not to attract girls but more for your own health and well being. I think once you start to feel good within yourself and better about yourself then you will find she might start to notice you. maybe join a gym and go to it and stick to it, go out and do more, take a walk, go to the swimming pool, get yourself out and about, you said she is out going person, why not show her that your also an outgoing person, a girl wants a man that will want to do things with her she does not want watch him sit on the couch all day and eat pizza and beer. some really nasty women will only go for looks, money etc... but the others will tend to go for more of all the other stuff that make a person special. It is true that first attractions play a big part, but not all women are attracted to the model look alikes that you might see on tv or other media, I have been told that I am a very attractive person , yet I have never gone out with a guy that is rich or that has a six back of aps, I once dated a man who's weight was about the same as your and we where together for 3 years. p.s dont be afraid to smile, and talk, if anything it will help your situation.
2006-12-03 12:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by ros_0123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-29 20:47:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't make yourself suitable for her... you should find someone that's already suitable for you.
I couldnt' see your photo..... and i'm not sure of pounds bcuz i'm from australia... but personally.... i like my guys a bit beefy, something to squeeze and hold onto...
You should smile more, nothings more attractive than a good smile. And how will she get to know you if you don't talk to her?
Just try and be more outgoing and happy go lucky! if she doesn't like you then.... its not your fault... she's just not the one for you!!
Go get that girl!!
2006-12-03 12:43:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, check this out. If a girl is seriously interested in you, she would like you for who you are rather than what you look like. I personally don't go for looks. Some people do go for looks rather than a person's personality, but it depends. The girl may be playing hard to get, or she may not like you. It's hard to tell. Tell her how much you want her...
2006-12-03 12:46:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your link is bogus, dude. I think based on your description yes, you are. I would never find a non smiler attractive. Laughing is what it's all about and happy ppl smile. So I wouldn't care if you looked like Tom Cruise...I wouldn't go out with you. Sorry, you asked.
2006-12-03 12:48:07 · answer #5 · answered by TotallylovesTodd! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are plenty of fish in the sea. Go after something a little more your style.
2006-12-03 12:42:45 · answer #6 · answered by Mr Brightsides 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, can't see your picture.
If you feel physically ok, I think that is fine. But some exercises is always good.
In my experience, love cannot be "force". Just be yourself and you will fine the right girl.
2006-12-03 12:47:47 · answer #7 · answered by BB2791 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is impossible to be ugly.everyone was made perfect by god.maybe that girl likes you too but is just to shy.have you approached her like asking her to hang out sometime together maybe she is just waiting for you so go get her you never no what can happen
2006-12-03 12:48:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have also struggle with my weight. but that's the old me. i started to exercise and watch what i eat. i recommend smaller portion sizes, eating slower, and going on walks and bike rides.
start to smile and talk. if you want her to notice you, you have to act like you WANT TO BE NOTICED.
good luck!
p.s. and you're not ugly! you're darned cute!
2006-12-03 12:47:20 · answer #9 · answered by happyinblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry i'm ugly 2. It's something ugly people have to get used to.
2006-12-03 12:40:52 · answer #10 · answered by J3Buckets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋