im depressed cuz i dont have confidence and freinds i have good looks but its nothin to survive i mean peoples only like outgoing peoples why not shy peoples?
im going to kill myself
2006-12-03 12:36:50 · 13 answers · asked by .. . 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
stop wasting ur time with this kind of issue as long as u healthy u can do anything u want
2006-12-03 12:40:01 · answer #1 · answered by yessie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont be silly. confidence is a state of mind. it is not like lets say when u are born with blue eyes and u really want green eyes, but cant have them, becouse u were born with blue eyes. U can learn how to be confident, and it is not hard. Just trust urself more. u say u r good looking, that is very good, u know, so u dont have to be shy about ur looks. And it is not true, that people like just outgoing people. Sometimes it is better to be little bit shy, than to be too confident and to act like a p-r-i-c-k. Why dont u have friends? do u not go to school? do u not go to work? I personally like shy people, because they are sweet. being too shy isnt good, neither is being too confident, u know? Dont worry, u will be fine.
2006-12-03 13:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by Eli 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong in being shy. Shy people have good friends also and can also be outgoing. They may talk a little less but that's okay! Try to be happy and always try to put a smile on your face, that automatically makes a lot of friends! Go out and talk to people and don't be afraid of rejection. In the long run you will have tons of friends.
2006-12-03 12:41:52 · answer #3 · answered by A fan 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok, I read a couple of things here. I you are depressed lets deal with that one first, I suffer from depression, mine to be specific is called bipolar, it seem according to the doctors that I have been afflicted with this, since I was about fouteen yrs old. I am now thirty nine. After seeing a number of docters about feeling down, not wanting to live, thinking no one liked me, sure I am beautiful, populor, dressess really well but, as you probably most depression are cause by a chemical embalance in the brain, once I was on the proper medications and the chemicals in my brain were at their normal levels all as well. Now sometime from time to time I get down but not to the level as before. I seek out support groups and attend them regular. These group save my life, I found friends to go out with, found a partner, did'nt feel like killing myself or attempt it ever again. I take my now nine pills at bedtime I sleep like a logg. I wake up send the kids off to school, my better half leave for work, and I go to my part time job, with minimal stress...........I too wanted to kill myself many times, but I figure I had,nt fight hard enough yet.......not just yet.......try a bit harder buddy I believe in you that you can do it..........am cheering for you!
2006-12-03 13:20:31 · answer #4 · answered by J. M. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont kill your self its ok im a shy kind of person to and i have friends so that means theres still hope for you dont worry you will find a gfirlfriend and friends and yes if you have good look im shure you will find a girl i would go after a hot guy no matter how shy he is so dont worry cheer up!!!!
2006-12-03 12:47:56 · answer #5 · answered by spriterox6 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it really isnt worth it. i have no friends at all, n i get down about it. try goin to the library and reading some books n makin friends there. or community groups. real friends shouldnt care what ur like. if all else fails u could always get some friendships up from chat rooms.
2006-12-03 16:40:04 · answer #6 · answered by *lil miss* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asking for advise is the first step to healing. You need to grab yourself up and do something. It' not healthy to stay next to the computer for hours....by yourself. You have to get out of your comfort zone and make yourself talk to other people. You can go to group health, your place of worship, your family and talk to ALL of them. Just start talking and find out why you are where you are, mentally. Perhaps take some classes and you will meet plenty of people. You don't have to be outgoing to have friends, you just have to go make them.
Take care of yourself.
2006-12-03 12:53:34 · answer #7 · answered by Lidya D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i just said a little prayer for you. I hope things get better for you soon. Please find someone to talk to about all of this. Either a friend in real life or find someone online to chat with.
2006-12-03 12:46:00 · answer #8 · answered by Bride2Be 8/30/08 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, no, take it easy,,.. please... how can you talk in such a bad form...!!!! calm down you are a value person cheer up!!!!, you have to accept the people how they are... nobody is perfect just get fun of everything... the life is wonderful if you learn to live it....
if you need to talk my e mail is marlinagui@hotmail.com
good luck..!! Martha NB.
2006-12-03 12:43:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ummm sorry to hear. i guess girls like myself like outgoing and not shy people because we want someone that takes charge. shy itself just isn't masculant. try to take charge.
2006-12-03 12:41:36 · answer #10 · answered by juju-b 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋