I have been going with this boy for about 4 months and he want me to have sex with him and I'm not comfortable to losing my virgintiy to someone with a reputation and someone I have been goin with for a short period of time.
2006-12-03 12:36:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont be pressured to do something u dont want to do. i this guy really lokes u he would understand and will wait till your ready
2006-12-03 12:38:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER have sex just to please a boy or because you think it will somehow make him love you. IT DOES NOT WORK THAT WAY!
Keep your virginity sweetie. If he truly likes you he will stop pressuring you but maintain the relationship. If he moves on, what have you lost? He probably would have after he used you anyway. And then you would end up feeling bad, possibly pregnant, or left with a sexually transmitted disease. It's not worth it.
2006-12-03 12:40:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
why are you even dating a guy that has a bad reputation? think about that for one minute.. do you really want to get used for sex and them dumped?
your virginity is something special that you can only ever give away once. please don't make the wrong decision.. you'll regret it for the rest of your life.. especially if you get a disease from him..
2006-12-03 12:42:57 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right not to do that.By him having a rep.,means that he is out to get in your pants.That's all Your a smart young lady,you know what to do with a guy like that.(DUMP HIM).There should be no reason for you to feel bad about DUMPING him,You know what he's about you said it yourself,and you know he's up to no good.Stay a virgin,there should be no rush to give your body away to anyone.Especially to him.
2006-12-03 13:24:05 · answer #4 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never let any guy pressure you to have sex I did and have regretted ever since he was such a pig so please wait until your ready if he really loves you he will wait no matter how long and when you feel comfortable too HUGS
2006-12-03 12:38:56 · answer #5 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No... It's not a good idea...
God set things in a specific order when He created us.
Try thinking of life as a book...
Sex belongs between the chapters titled "MARRIAGE" and "LIFE TOGETHER."
2006-12-03 12:41:14 · answer #6 · answered by KnowhereMan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cannot answer this quesiton for you. Nobody can, but answer this question, do you want to have his child? If the answer is no, then the answer is a definate no. Next question, are you ready to raise a child? If the answer is no, then your answer is no. I'm sure you can see where this is going.
2006-12-03 12:42:57 · answer #7 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. 4 months is not a long time and don't do anything that you don't want to do. Keep your virginity.
2006-12-03 12:40:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he has a reputation, you will be one of his conquests. Congratulations! I am also available by the way and looking for a conquest for New Years:-)
2006-12-03 12:39:12 · answer #9 · answered by Apeman 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO !NO ! NO! don't do it .... man i am telling you wait untill you are married .. it will be worth it i promise ... with your virginity you will be able to tell what guys are worth dating because if they really like you then they will wait.... virginity is a GOOD THING!!!!!!!!!!!! SAVE IT !!
2006-12-03 12:42:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋