If you ask out someone and she says she is busy that time, what u do? ask her again?

Question

is it possible that she really is busy?! How can I know that she is really busy or she just doesnt want to come out with me?

Answer 1

No you give her your number and ask tell her if she wants to go out sometime to drop you a line, then there is no pressure and she wont feel like she has to avoid you.

Answer 2

if you can tell she was actually busy, then she wasnt shutting you down. ask her again casually, dont pressure her and dont keep on asking her. there really isnt much advice someone can give on this topis, other than pick the rigt time, if she says she's busy again, then she just isnt interested.

-good luck!

Answer 3

Well, it's kind of a way of putting you down (and often, in the background, saying passively they think they're too good for you) but, then again, I've a good deal of dated girls who've done that initially.

If you're, say, trying to date a girl who's in much better shape than you or you've done something in front of them that shows you're a more boring person than her then there's a good chance you've blown most of it (and need to work on said things). If she doesn't know you at all and is just, say, blowing you off because you don't have a competitive look (protruding jawline, manly face, muscles, etc.), there's a good chance she's judging your excitement by your looks and she just doesn't know you enough to respect you much.

But here are a few things to do:

A) Whatever you do don't ask her again: it gives her an excuse to say you're an uninvited guest or even a stalker, even if she never says no (sad and rather unfair, but true)
B) Do, however, hang around her friends (not as love interests of course, that's just skanky), have a blast, and make it obvious to her she is not better than you and she's missing out.
C) Don't ever offer to pay, give her gifts, help out with homework, etc. These make it appear you're boring and you're only doing that because you think that's all you can offer her. Say you have better things to do.
D) Do invite her to do things you enjoy doing anyhow. Don't ask her out, simply (after getting her girl friends' attention and respect) say "want to help me with my homework?" This says to her "I am exciting, which is why I can get away with being less-than-a-nice-guy, because I make up for it by being unpredictable, funny, a good lover, etc. ...and if you want to get to see that side of me you'll have to ask me out". Hence why guys date jerks; they assume they are "more experienced" and able to pay off for their demandingness in naughty ways.
E) Don't introduce her to your friends or invite her to parties with your friends: that can come across as saying you don't think you're exciting enough reason for her to come but your friends are (and she might ditch you and hook up with them)
F) Do ask her challenging questions like "can you (name something non-academic you're good at)" that you in some ways doubt she can do well. That will send her a definite message "if you are with me, you'll have the chance to be with someone in many ways interesting because you gain strength following me, not the other way around (which is more like desperation)"
G) Be/get in great aerobic shape, never ever drool when you kiss, and make a point to give opinions.
Listen and let her know you've listened by repeating in your own word, but don't agree unless you really 100% agree and NOT because it's the polite thing to say. Do cut her off when she complains in long sessions about things you can't control.
Let her know, in most if not all cases, you're the stronger person and then back it up by being that person in anything you two do intimately...that will keep you ahead of any guy, no matter how much of a movie star he looks like.

Be a man and women will treat you like one. Try to compensate for "weaknesses", feel guilty, or follow people around, and people will often disrespect you even for things you are stronger at then them. Your choice.

Answer 4

U can and if she tells you sorry she is busy that is her way of letting you go so good luck

Answer 5

if she is really busy,then she would call you out once she is done with her work..but if she keeps avoiding you..you should get the hint

Answer 6

Ask her again at a another time.

Answer 7

what kind of vibe were you getting? if it was bad then dont ask her out, if it was a sincere "she was busy" then ask her out again

Answer 8

Ask someone else out, she isn't interested.