i like this boy and he likes me to we went on a road trip with our school and his room was next to mine and he asked me if he wanted to have a little fun if you know what i mean i said no should i have said yes
2006-12-03 12:31:17 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh em gee! You like totally did the right thing. You're still in school and stuff and think about how having "a little fun" would have ruined your education if you got pregnant
Or ruin your life if you got an STD.
You totally did the right thing.
One day the right guy will come along..one who wants to start a relationship with you and be an actual BF instead of this guy who sounds like he just wants to have the glory of saying he had "a little fun" with you.
GOOD JOB GIRLY!
2006-12-03 12:44:39 · answer #1 · answered by Brigitte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!
Do not let a boy make you feel you have to do more than you're comfortable with.
He might think you're "frigid" or he might actually respect your decision. If it's the former, he's a jerk and you should reconsider liking someone else, and if it's the latter, well... boys make a lot of mistakes and he'll realize you're one of the good girls he should really try to hard to keep.
Whatever it may be, please, don't settle for less than what you may want, especially in a guy and relationship.
2006-12-03 20:40:10 · answer #2 · answered by Natalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is some thing you really have to asnwer your self well I am saying this are you to going to stay long in a relation ship if you have said yes. would he have talked to you after you had the fun? well that is some thing that you know and are you ready to give him that plasure? if not then you did the right thing!! seriously
2006-12-03 20:35:14 · answer #3 · answered by abeshawiwe!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is completley ok to say no. It is your choice and I think he moving way too fast! And if you want to stay with him then talk to him about it but don't give in and make him make you feel awkward. Tell him you do not want to. Your not ready. When you are ready make him know that you are in control and you do not want to go any farther than what ever. Do not feel bad at all! Good Decision! Good Luck!
:-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-)
2006-12-03 20:38:08 · answer #4 · answered by Candrdy J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you did the right thing. you dont wanna risk getting STD's or pregnent or anything like that over a crush
plus if a teacher found out you would get expelled and your education would go down the drain.
Good choice saying no.
I give you mad props
2006-12-03 20:32:58 · answer #5 · answered by jake 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What is you know what I mean? I dont know exactly what you mean by that. Anywho, I think that was a good decision to make. maybe you and him should go out on a formal date, or just exchange numbers.
2006-12-03 20:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by jazzyone82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made the most sensible choice. Don't worry, you'll eventually have sex, but, while you're still in school, sex isn't the smartest thing to do. So good choice.
To me, anyway.
2006-12-03 20:36:14 · answer #7 · answered by The World Ends with You 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its probably better you said no to start with. but now that you know the idea is there, you should do it next time. make sure he's nice to you and don't be afraid to talk to him during it all.
why are their so many people answering below me saying a little fun is bad? let the poor teens fool around, as if you never did?! its called curiosity, desire and well just hopefully not an std, but is that all you can think about?
ah well.
2006-12-03 20:32:49 · answer #8 · answered by B.B Top 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
No, you made the right choice. Now, make another good choice, and find a guy who isn't trying to get into your pants.
2006-12-03 20:33:10 · answer #9 · answered by Leo F 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
u did the right thing. u dont want a relationship to start off such a rocky start. u did the right thing saying no
2006-12-03 20:40:25 · answer #10 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋