when u tell a girl u love her do u mean it? or do u just say it to make her feel better. cuz im in love with this awesome guy n when he says i luv you it just seems so hard to believe. he seems soo perfect dat i just think wat is he doing with me. i really luv him and am very afraid to lose him :[ wat makes it worse is dat he lives so far away and i bet there r tons of girls chasing him there n im just scared that he might like some1 else. weve known each other for like 1 and a half years n i truly love him n just scared to lose him. :[ i tell him i luv him everyday n he tells me 2 but idk its hard to accept it. he just seems soo great n i feel like i dont deserve him.. wat should i do?
2006-12-03 12:22:41 · 7 answers · asked by honney bunny 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You got to trust your instincts, go with how you feel, its hard to have a long distance relationship but if you can trust him and believe that he loves you then you just need to relax and just go with the flow. Its actually happening to me but i live with my boyfriend and i am scared of losing him, but i just have to go with the flow. hope you sort it out good luck
2006-12-03 12:31:03 · answer #1 · answered by Bex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what IS your issue? If he tells you. . . that doesn't satisfy you? What does he have to do, coming riding up on a white horse and sweep you off your feet? Guys (for the most part) DON'T work like that. We work from an analytical point of view. Women work from an emotional point of view. We figure if we tell you we love you you'll get the picture. That's not a light thing to say for most guys (unless they are lying to get you in the sack). This does not sound like that. Quit looking for something that is ALREADY there.
2006-12-03 12:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're a 15 year previous female. this is the user-friendly answer. yet to complicated, what you're coping with appears like rigidity. college instructors tend to over-react to each and each little concern besides. at the same time as i replaced into in college, I sent an e mail correspondence to random people who replaced superb right into a shaggy dogs tale a pair of instructor affirming he would desire to fairly have been a female than a guy. Then i replaced into put in isolation and accused of sexual offences against infants - and after my moms and dads went to the school to form it out, the instructor had to apologise for over-reacting and making the fake accusation. you do no longer sound like somebody who's on drugs and your instructor should not be making such accusations till ultimately they have ideal innovations. rigidity, hyper lively emotions, and tactics everywhere are quickly forward part outcomes of puberty and it particularly is worse for women than it particularly is for boys (b/c females might desire to attend to instructions/etc). as quickly as you get to around 18, you will no longer experience so loopy and living an uncomplicated existence will come lots much less demanding. only undergo and don't subject what human beings or instructors say. additionally, there are a thank you to shrink rigidity, including meditation - thinking a pair of calm place and letting bypass of all your diverse innovations for 5 minutes daily. yet in a diverse way is respiration excercises - you breathe in, carry your breath (for roughly 4 seconds), then breathe out slowly.
2016-10-13 22:56:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell, you worry too much, and by being so insecure about the relationship you may very well chase the love of your life, off. Except things for what they are and stop trying to find a problem that isn't there
2006-12-03 12:27:48 · answer #4 · answered by inmate3685 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him and he truely loves you, then make things work. Long distance relationships do and can work out. I myself am in one. Theres trust issues that do along with it though. If you dont trust him, then you shouldnt be with him.
2006-12-03 12:25:58 · answer #5 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might see summin else in your that you dont see in yourself thats why he loves you and you cant understand why...guys dont waste their time on someone they dont love...long distance is nothing it work out sounds really good
2006-12-03 12:29:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever thought that he dose love you most guys i no wont and cant say it unless they realy mean it
2006-12-03 12:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by rk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋