My guy is a total sweet heart but the only problem is that he doesn’t and never has expressed how he feels about me; he hasn’t even called me anything other than my name before!! We have only been together for 3 months but I’m crazy about him and eager to see him, however he is really relaxed, he says: hey if I see you tonight that’s great but if you have any thing better to do I understand. I want him to open up and show me some emotion, how do I make him do that?
2006-12-03 12:16:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is just the nature of a guy. Every guy in a legitiment relationship is usually like this. If you do confront him about it stay calm. If you don't there will be a fight.
2006-12-03 12:20:12 · answer #1 · answered by uofmeuchre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are... I am going to assume you are an adult. You can't MAKE someone open up to you. They either do it or they don't. By all means talk to him about it but give it some time. 3 months is not a long time and if you care about him you do not want to scare him away. My hubby is the same way. I actually dumped him when we were dating because I didn't know if he even like me! lolol. If he cares, he may not be able to say it with words. Maybe he will show you in other ways? Good luck. Hang in there.
2006-12-03 12:20:59 · answer #2 · answered by mikey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make him do anything. He is not on the same level as you in this relationship . . . yet. He may get there but NOT if you rush him. You can have a casual conversation and ask him about his feelings but I am guessing you won't get a lot out of him. I would not push my feelings on him either as that may scare him off. If you continue seeing each other things WILL change but you must be patient. If you can't you need to see someone else.
2006-12-03 12:22:54 · answer #3 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not even "sweetheart or baby?", what's up with this guy? Is he from a different culture or something ?Where pet names are not used ?. Maybe he's just not the type, but then, it's hard to believe that a guy that is into you wouldn't talk to you in a romantic way,especially after 3 months. It might be time to have this guy followed.
2006-12-03 12:25:55 · answer #4 · answered by CLAIRE KC1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are about communicating feels. You need to give him the ultimatum that unless he shares himself, you are going to leave for a man who is while less than sweet, but open to sharing himself with you. What good is sweetness if he keeps it to himself, and doesnt share it with you? I suggest you asking to sleep with him to open him up to you, as this will work on sweet types.
2006-12-03 12:19:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
patience is a virtue, & its the difference of you 2 that attracts you 2 to eachother, now we all cant be alike.. i do understand your dilliema, but honey hang in there & any concerns you have voice them to him & i hope everything works out good luck!!
2006-12-03 12:20:25 · answer #6 · answered by kimmiegaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is if you talk to him about it....if not he is not even worth it. Hey I have alot of friends that are in the same problem like you.
2006-12-03 12:19:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds very casual, and very much like a booty call. Talk to him about it, but be prepared to move on.
2006-12-03 12:19:43 · answer #8 · answered by Sad-Dad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋