should i let him finger me and should i give him a hand job?? and anyways does it hurt??
2006-12-03 11:38:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it does'nt hurt at all..it is very pleasurable..of course it depends on how how her fingers you. Guys love hand jobs..but to be honest..I do not think you are ready. If you have to ask here becasue you do not know..then do not do it. There is no harm in saying no to him..Do not let him pressure you!!!..Stand strong girl!
2006-12-03 11:42:46 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't. You are asking for trouble and. . . once you start something it escalates. He will lose respect for you and dump you. . . this WILL happen. Why do you want to do this? To be accepted by him? If that's the reason you don't want him anyway. You REALLY need to determine why you are even asking this question. Curiosity is one thing that can be understood, but once your hormones take over things keep going until you have intercourse. Our bodies are designed by God to work that way.
Ask yourself:
- Do I really want him to feel me up and finger me? (it might hurt and it might not depending on the physical maturity level of your body)
- Do I want him to see me naked? (that is a definite possibility)
- Do I want to see him naked?
- Do I want to risk getting caught?
- What if my parents find out?
- What if my friends find out?
. . . . you can go from there. . .
- Do you want the worry and guilt?
Remember this. The ONLY thing you can offer a future husband that no one else can offer him is your virginity and sexual innocense and while you don't know this. . . THAT is the MOST valuable gift in life to him. He will cherish you for waiting.
2006-12-03 11:51:22 · answer #2 · answered by snddupree 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing wrong with alittle foreplay at your age, just don't let it go any further and always keep in control because if the guy is in control he'll want sex. Remember use a condom. :)
2006-12-03 11:42:35 · answer #3 · answered by blondie007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let him give you a hot carl. If you dont know... check the urban dictionary.
2006-12-03 11:47:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends if you are comforatable doing it, and no it doesnt hurt, it feels great
2006-12-03 11:43:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lucky guy
2006-12-03 11:40:17 · answer #6 · answered by Ian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋