I've never been in love before and, to my knowledge, no one has ever been in love with me. I don't understand it. How does one except you for you without conditions or restrictions?
I understand lust and conditional/passionate love. Can someone truly love, understand, respect, and care for you despite your quirks and imperfections? Or is this what love songs, chick flicks and chain e-mails manipulate us to believe?
2006-12-03 11:37:18 · 11 answers · asked by cute_chocolate_buggie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i can say from personal experience that the only person who truly loves you exactly the way you are, is the person that God has created you to be with. for example...my future husband loves that he can't understand me (and he loves trying) he loves everything about me completely. and that's what tells me that this really is love and not lust so your day will come and when you find it you'll know that its real...but don't rush it
2006-12-03 11:44:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The short answer is a resounding "YES!"
The long answer is along the lines of how do you personally put something as 'conditional/passionate love'? On one hand, that describes what true love can be, though the passion will lessen with time and become a deeper, more comfortable and complex connection.
On the other hand, despite you saying you understand conditional/passionate love; you don't consider that to be true love, nor do I have anyway of figuring out what you mean by that phrase.
Regardless, the only way love can ever be lasting is by letting go of the little differences and compromise on any large issues. Sometimes with the large issues even compromise won't be the answer so much as one person realizing that the other person's feelings are so strong regarding whatever issue, that they have to respect that and deal with it.
I don't know how you personally handle dating, but I've found through both my own and others' experiences, it's best to start as friends or at least as people who enjoy each other's company enough to want to explore it further. Just don't go lunging at each other because you can end up with an irrepairable friendship.
2006-12-03 11:52:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, someone can truly, deeply, passionately and unconditionally love you for you. Your little quirks and imperfections just make you all the more " you" and all the more lovable. It will happen for you, when you least expect it.
2006-12-03 11:43:41 · answer #3 · answered by SOLO KING 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-12-03 11:43:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhh yes someone can love you for you
im 53 overweight but still look good ---- have a lot of bad habits and i am in love with and loved by a lady much younger than me --- for me its unconditional love --- whatever makes her happy -- and you know i make her happy --- surprises me no end
2006-12-03 11:41:22 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-12-03 11:39:33 · answer #6 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 15:10:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse sum1 could really love u.Its really hard to explain how sum1 can just want to make u and only u happy no matta wat the cost...sum1 who could care less wat imperfections u have,or werid things u do...sum1 who feels physical pain when he/she thinks of something or sum1 hurting u.its very possible i've felt it and i have been given the same.
2006-12-03 11:51:23 · answer #8 · answered by Felicia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is just another word for trust
2006-12-03 11:42:12 · answer #9 · answered by david c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup :) love is not understandable. it just is what it is, but ppl can really love...amazing i kno
2006-12-03 11:40:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋