my bessy mate has this real problem, like many guys he is not allowed to se the girl he loves and cherishes more than anyone due to over protective parents, ways around it?
2006-12-03 11:22:19 · 7 answers · asked by ANTJOHN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not his parents and I can f-u-c-k-i-n-g- spell but I was in a rush, b-a-s-t-a-r-d
2006-12-03 11:30:09 · update #1
I have the exact same problem as your friend... I haven't seen her nor spoken to her for 4 months wouthout an explanation and I will do anything to get back.
I do feel sorry for him because it really is the most hardest of times I've been through. I've tried everything I could to get around it.. but so far, no luck. She has tried to get hold of me, but they threatened to throw her out if she tries to contact me, apparently.
I sent a letter to her yesterday, hopefully that will do some good. I really don't understand why parents are like this. I am slightly older and we do live quite a distance from each other. But the family don't know me... they can't judge me like that... this is what gets to me a lot. Maybe it is to do with over-protectiveness..
I have to find a way to get around it and talk to them. They blocked my phone number and e-mail address.
But I wrote a long letter to her telling her everything. I just hope to God that her family will reconsider.
I could just turn up at the house, but I don't know if it is a good idea without her knowing..
I wish your friend the best of luck!
2006-12-03 11:41:42 · answer #1 · answered by Aaron_J88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 15:09:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are they over protective? Is she really young and he's a lot older than her or something? I've no idea how he can get round this one! Has he been round to meet her parents yet? If not, blow the mother away by wearing a suit and carrying a huge bunch of flowers! Or, get him to arrange to meet with her dad and say that his intentions towards his daughter are honourable etc........... it will also help if your mate has a half decent job and car! lol Dads are fussy about who calls on their daughters! lol
2006-12-03 11:32:28 · answer #3 · answered by enigma64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who's parents, his or hers?
How old is he, and for that matter she?
What race/religion are they?
Too many questions not answered but the answer to your original question, the way round it is to clear off away from the parents providing they are both over the age of consent. Otherwise while you live under the parents roof you go by their rules
2006-12-03 17:01:55 · answer #4 · answered by Martin14th 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing he can do is convince the girl's parents that he can be trusted to have their daughter's best interests at heart. That may take a behavourial change and some time for the trust to be won.
2006-12-03 11:25:50 · answer #5 · answered by MarkEverest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should really stand up for himself, tell him to tell his parents that its his life and they should NOT interfere with his life!
2006-12-03 11:26:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should date a teacher so they can teach you to spell
2006-12-03 11:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋