PLEASE help me?

Question

do u think pple can change in a half a year? my ex bf wants to go out. he seems diff in a good way but im not sure if its the right thing. he's hurt me before. he was my first love and no matter who i date i occasionally think of him. what should i do? PLEASE help me

Answer 1

From my experience I would have to say NO. I was married for 5 yrs and my ex had some issues that came about after we got married. We went to counseling and other things. He would appear to have changed for the better but neverless ALWAYS (atleast 3 times this happened) he would go back to his old ways about every 6 months. I mean they can only fake for so long of who they really are. I will have to say that you guys didn't work because your relationship was broken. Can I suggest a book. I can't remember who's it's by but it's the same person who wrote "He's just not that into you" Greg something. Anyways the book is called "It's called a break up because it's broken". It's a great book. Maybe you could read it and it will shead some light on what you would like to do with your ex. I know it helped me and I didn't go back.

Answer 2

I think u should listen and do what the little voices in ur head tell u to...this is about people's opinion...it's about how u feel..cause u're the only one who can know if he did change or not..be cautious as our friend said...go for it...it wont cause any harm but keep on testing him until u find out that he really changed and if u found out that he didnt then leave him...alot of other guys are waiting for u honey..but just wait for the right time...it will come but be patient...

Answer 3

give him another chance. i guess he finally realized that you were the best thing he ever had. and he didn't know what he had till ....
just give him a chance but don't exactly show him that you really want him back. kinda make it hard for him.

Answer 4

ppl can change in half a second too....you have to be cautious

Answer 5

forget about him. he will only hurt you again.