How did you respond?
Were you able to "speak the truth in love" and acknowledge your pain?
if not, how did you deal with the hurt?
Love and Peace be with you all:)
2006-12-03 10:26:02 · 9 answers · asked by inteleyes 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Usually I suck it up. I am a Christian and I know that I make mistakes, too. If it continues sometimes you need to say something. It's better to plan a time to talk to the person in love, as you said, than let it come out in anger. God bless.
2006-12-03 10:31:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's been a long time since someones words wounded me. I guess I had not thought about it in a very long time. I am in my 40's and I do not let people have to much power over me. When I was younger I would not let anyone know when they hurt me, I would just keep everything locked inside. As I got older I started being more opens about my feelings and I let people know if I was hurt, shortly after that I got to a point where words do not typically bother me.
2006-12-03 10:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by Gee-Gee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When? Today, yesterday, the day before that, and the day before that....Yes, we talk about it. It's a journey of self-discovery, so for as much as it's hurt there's been some growth and a lot of joy. No animosity. We treat each other respectfully, and that makes all the difference.
2006-12-03 10:31:45 · answer #3 · answered by iamnoone 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would take whatever was said as how it was given. It really depends on what is said. It might be that I really was wrong and deserved those words. It might be that it was a misunderstanding and should be corrected and forgotten about. It might be just a simple difference of opinion. Oh well.
I'm not going to live my life totally based on what others think of me. I have my own opinions of myself and I try to be honest with who I am.
2006-12-03 10:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by nondescript 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am now dealing with a friend who hurts me every day. she brags and makes fun of me! i know she isnt my real frind so i am planning on telling her how i feel no matter how hard it may be
God bless u and keep u
2006-12-03 10:28:32 · answer #5 · answered by jldevin 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have a friend who's always putting me down and bragging all the time- things like that. i'm going to tell her how i feel, but she'll take offense anyways.
2006-12-03 10:36:32 · answer #6 · answered by *gasp* it's me! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when She told me " I am not after your money " and She took me anyway. just let it go as it was only money and She needed it worse than I did. besides what goes around comes around. Pray for her happiness for this is what we are supposed to do. besides I love her
2006-12-03 10:43:36 · answer #7 · answered by Marvin R 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IT IS WRITTEN.......!
(Luke 17:3) Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repent, forgive him.
To allow the Abuse = IS COWARDICE! To Continue to Allow IT = IS STUPIDITY!
Remember, "IGNORANCE CAN BE FIXED = STUPID IS FOREVER!
Thanks, RR
2006-12-03 10:31:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
All the time. I'm immune to it.
2006-12-03 10:29:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋