How to attract women???

Question

I am having problems in attracting women and i would like some advice on how i can overcome this. Thanks

Answer 1

Buy a Ferrari.

Answer 2

First you got to check yourself out. You may be coming accross all wrong. Your clothes may be of a different taste. You may be trying to hard. You got to be relaxed be yourself stop looking all the time and enjoy a womans company rather than try and date every girl you talk to. This way you will be able to get closer to women and then possibly attract them. Get a book on body language and maybe thats were you are going wrong.

Answer 3

depends.

1. are you being overly flirtatious?
a. yes
b. no
c. sometimes
2. do you follow or "zone in" one a few girls because you have a crush on them?
a. yes
b. no
c. sometimes
3. do you try to hang out with them a lot?
a. yes
b. no
c. sometimes
4. do you wear lots of cologne frequently?
a. yes
b. no
c. sometimes
5. do you "bump into" girls as a way to get their attention?
a. yes
b. no
c. sometimes
6. do youshow off in front of girls or their friends a lot?
a. yes
b. no
c. sometimes
7. do you act super cool in front of girls or their friends?
a. yes
b. no
c. sometimes

if you said mostly a's: you are trying WAY too hard. you may be coming off as obnoxious, egotisitcal, or self centered. none of theses are good qualities in a guy. try to take it down a notch on the show offing because girls might think you are annoying. too much cologne can really turn off a girl. i personally don't like overbearing scents.

if you said mostly b's: you are not putting yourself out there enough. you should join a sport, a club, or other afterschool groups. try to pick one that intrests YOU. that way, you'll meet people who share your interests. if you act invisible. no one will notice you.

if you said mostly c's: you are on the right track. you know where t draw the line between flirting and being obnoxious. you also know when to blend and be a part of the group.

the most important thing, as cliche as it may be, is to BE YOURSELF!!! if you act like someone you're not, you won't get the girls that are good for you.

good luck!

Answer 4

Hello,

Forget all the non sense & advise given in the media, TV & books. The best way to be attractive to woman is to be completely yourself, STOP trying to impress! stop trying to be something or someone that your not, people can see through those kind of games anyway.

**forget the tired and worn out cliche of chat up lines, if your going to be funny, likable or humorous allow that part of who you are to show or shine. (and I dont mean after 10 pints of dutch courage either).

**More than anything else!! being emotionaly open & vulnerable are extremely attractive qualities that I know woman do find attractive quite often.

**The more secure & self confident you are in yourself the more that woman will see that, & that's another quality that will draw woman towards you.

**DO!! learn to flirt, flirting is a kind of game, woman love to be flirted with even if you dont take things further, even if you dont get a date.

**Just dont have preconceived ideas about someone or what they might think of you either. Just allow the chemistry of meeting someone to happen, if you can put aside your ego self & just allow yourself to be with this other person then real magic can happen. (sadly, its the ego that trips us up most of the time!).

IR

Answer 5

Doesn't matter a fcuk how good looking you are women don't look at us the same way we do them. You gotta make em laugh, be kind and friendly. Self confident and they will be attracted to you. Oh and dont wear the vest on a date ok

Answer 6

Be interesting. Women want to go out with someone who will make them look good before their girlfriends. If they can't brag about being with you, slim chance. As to make that happen, here's a trick:
If you have a female friend (NOT the one you want to go out with), have her plant the rumor that you are a master piano player, a top chess playr, something like that. Once word gets around, girls will be intrigued. remember, they are subconsciously looking for talent, for superior genes. Do what you can to make them believe you have that.
Conspirative greetings,
Tahini.

Answer 7

No BO, no bad breath. Go for smart casual clothes (avoid prints if you don't know how to wear them), relaxed smile. If attracting women is your problem then it's the appearance that counts. Keeping them is different, be yourself, be relaxed, don't try to be cool or funny. You'll just make her feel uneasy. Good luck.

Answer 8

Wear some good cologne. That always gets to me. I love a man who smells good.

Also, if you're the shy type (which I am) with the opposite sex especially, just get an outgoing mutual friend that you both can hang out with and see what happens from there.

Just act really nice and sweet...I hope everything works out for you! ;-)

Good luck! ^_^

Answer 9

being yourself, dont try to hard to impress them, dnt allow nervousness to show, dnt ask too many questions, make conversation, if they look bored finish your story quickly and start off a new one.
u seem like a sweety. I will b glad to talk more by email...
[e-mail]...if u need any more advice im here for ya.. good luck

Answer 10

As for personality I'd say, strive to be yourself at all times as much as possible and persavere through trials in life without giving up. When you're proud of yourself and happy with yourself, girls like that!

Answer 11

don't try too hard - I met my bf when I'd given up looking for someone! Women can pick up on desperation! Also, be happy with yourself - many people will steer clear of someone who has a low self-esteen because it shows