The last 6 months me and my boyfriend have been having a rough time.. he took a break from me for 3 weeks with hardly any contact at all and it was all because he said he needed time to focus on his career and wanting to be a professional basketball player it involves a lot of training etc. so he used me as an excuse to sayi got in his way so we took a break . anyway in 3 weeks he ended up realizing he couldnt do this without me and made a mistake i came out and asked him Honestly was it having to do with girls b/c it just doesnt make sense why u would want a break. And he is a really nice guy i mean great heart and all that and he said no no no even tho he did go and party during those 3 weeks. Ok these girls spread rumors saying that the had sex with him on the break and before when we were dating. he denys the entire thing and was really upset that i didnt believe him at first. he said u are my future i want to marry u why would i mess that up? why does it still bother me?
2006-12-03 09:34:55 · 8 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he did cheat on you you need to leave him NOW! If you really think he did cheat on you ,and it is on your mind, then it will probably remain in your thoughts as long as you are together. Maybe you need to take a break from him. Let him see how it feels. ALso, then you will be able to clear your head and decided it youreally want to be with him. Best of luck!
2006-12-03 09:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by nygnut2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What bothers you is that his reason for the split wasn't explanatory enough for you. If he did "cheat" at least he was decent enough to break up with you first. Which actually means that he did not cheat. If I were you...right now I would drop this issue and pick up where you left off. If he does this again...then two strikes...he is out!!!! Sometimes we do need alone time. If he can't concentrate on what he has to do because of you, that isn't a good thing. Lighten up. Or you will end up without him anyway. Again, if he does this particular break-up move again, I suggest you move on. But this time, the first time, he must have realized that you mean more to him than he thought. Good luck!
2006-12-03 09:42:58 · answer #2 · answered by mich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've hade a similar experience. Let me tell you this, if he isn't going anywhere with this basket ball career, then he must be up to something is he can stray away from you for three weeks. And he should always talk to you about it, because you are his girlfriend. Secondly, don;t listen to rumors, if you feel something confront him. Him making excuses is a sign that he isn't that interested in what he is doing to you. People can be nice in a devious way, so watch out for that too. I just think he should be considerate that he has a concerned girlfriend, maybe you should remind him!
2006-12-03 09:40:23 · answer #3 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its because in your heart you don't believe that nothing went on with him and these girls.if he needed to focus on his career why was he going out? im sorry but i don't believe that he is being honest with you.
2006-12-03 09:38:54 · answer #4 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got the same problem. i still love my gf she thinks i'm cheating too. but i'm not. i think he didin't cheat so just tell him to tell you and look into your eyes.
2006-12-05 07:18:09 · answer #5 · answered by EZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've lost trust and you'll never be able to get it back with him.
2006-12-03 09:36:53 · answer #6 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up
2006-12-03 09:37:50 · answer #7 · answered by sadie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it.
2006-12-03 09:39:41 · answer #8 · answered by john 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋