well...i find maself out of this world smtimes..coz im 19 now...and erm...is funny how i'm the only dude that hasnt lost his virginity yet....i mean...now people get curious of me and ask if im gay..IM NOT...im just keepin mine till further notice..heh....why is that odd??..i survived high school...now in college pressure is buildin...
2006-12-03 09:28:03 · 26 answers · asked by Sam 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are a rareity. I respect your choice. This obviously shows that you respect yourself, not all people do. With all the diseases and fatherless children out there you are showing that you do respect and care about the other people in your life, as you are not trying to push yourself and wants for sex on women. What others may say is their opinion, just like what I am saying here is an opinion, everybody has one, which ones we choose to listen to and act upon are the choices that lead us to our place in life.
Keep your self respect, and someday a good self respecting woman may appear and join you in a journey together. How long you wait and how high you set the bar, may have a bearing on the time frame as well. Enjoy the uncomplicated existance of solitary living. Relationships are complicated and take work if they are to last. Feelings are not enough in most cases. All cases as far as my life goes. Tell your friends, if I was gay I'd be hitting on you, and I'm not, so if you are my friend, realize I am just waiting for the woman I will love and marry, and respect my choice. I respect your's.
2006-12-03 09:53:32 · answer #1 · answered by Bob L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you're doing something I wish I had. Instead I screwed up around the wrong women. I'm not saying anything horrible has happened per se, but it does change everything. How you perceive it definitely changes.once you get started, it can be like a drug addiction, which is highly unfavorable. I've made it almost 2 years now, just keeping my relationships free of corruption, but it's more difficult now to fight doing it than it ever was before. Fight the good fight.
2006-12-03 17:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by Gray 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't give in to pressure! A lot of people don't think about the consequences when they lose their virginity, which include sexually transmitted diseases and doing it without meaning or feelings.
I'm proud of you.
2006-12-03 17:31:45 · answer #3 · answered by Toronto_bamboo_star 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U will loose it when ur ready. dont let anyone pressure u. U have morals and dont want to jump into bed with the first one that comes along. Stick by it. It admiral.
2006-12-03 17:32:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not feel pressured into it. You will know when the time is right, and it's not anybody's business when and with whom you have sex.
It is very mature of you to not give in to this pressure, way more mature than those who wonder about it.
2006-12-03 17:31:09 · answer #5 · answered by T Time 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Threes nothing wrong with waiting till you feel the time is right.I know it sounds cliche,but it will make it more special.
Don't feel you have to be in a hurry just to prove your not gay.You know your not and that's all that counts.
2006-12-03 17:32:24 · answer #6 · answered by mopjky 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um I'm 19 too,still a virgin and no pressure at all.
2006-12-03 17:30:11 · answer #7 · answered by howyaaa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep up dude
im glad to find out that im not the only one who is a virgin at 20
2006-12-03 17:31:59 · answer #8 · answered by bella 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it makes you feel better, most of the girls I know would prefer virgins over people that have been in bed with someone else.
2006-12-03 17:31:06 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Forget the pressure. Let it happen naturally, don't force anything. It will be more enjoyable if you're not all stressed out about it.
2006-12-03 17:30:52 · answer #10 · answered by deviatedheart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋