I WANT 2 BE A PRO DANCER but my boyfriend is killing my dream by telling me I am not good enough and I have won HEAPS of competions and every day when I need 2 go to dancing he calls me up and says "I hope you dont embrassed your self" what should i do? should i leave him or should i bear him in all this cause i love him!
2006-12-03 09:08:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just do it, you don't have to know what he said. Just do it If you love it
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2006-12-03 09:10:31 · answer #1 · answered by LATAS 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Honey, you are about to get yourself involved with a selfish, ignorant doofus who is a potential wife abuser. He is already scared to death that you could become something better than he is ever going to amount to. He envies you for the skill that you have, and inside he is seething with jealosy and resentment. Get involved any further with this man and he WILL kill your dream, but that will only be because you let him do it.
Love? never mind your side of it.. ask yourself does Love behave the way he is behaving? When you love somebody do y ou treat that person the way he is treating you? NO NO NO. This guy wants his bread buttered on both sides. . He wants to be connected to someone who could one day become "somebody" and that will make HIM look good But at exactly the same time, he HATES that it is you, and not him who has that chance to be somebody. But he is so mentally twisted, he also realises that if he stops you from being all that you can be, YOU end up with nothing, just like him. If you let this man dominate you in this way, you will be showing him that you are weak. This kind of man goes after a woman he thinks is weak, because that is the only thing that makes HIM feel strong.
I used to have a bright, beautiful, intelligent, accomplished niece who got tied to a man like this one. She died from it. The family learned the signs well, and I am not betting you, I am flat-out telling you I know this kind of man with the certainty of a radar beam. Dump him before he gets any stronger grip on you than he already seems to have. Don't become another statistic.
2006-12-03 09:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is insecure, maybe he feels like he will lose you if you become a pro dancer. You should let him know that you need his support in this and that he is not being helpful by always putting you down. If he continues to do the same things then you should probably end the relationship. You deserve to have the man that loves you also support your dreams. If you allow him to interfere with you following your dreams you will probably resent him someday for it anyway and then you will have bigger relationship problems and you would have given up on your dream.
2006-12-03 09:14:47 · answer #3 · answered by sleep2dream65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dream or not, dancers don't really make stacks of cash. Just ask Kevin Federline. You might want to build up your acting talent as well and go into theatre. That way your dancing talent doesn't go to waste AND you make more cash than if you were just in the occasional music video.
As for the relationship, leave him, because he obviously can't rationalize his stance, he just wants to make fun of you.
2006-12-03 09:10:23 · answer #4 · answered by vigi4x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im so sorry, you boyfrind doesn't sound very respectful of your dreams :'( hes not kidding when he says these things??? if i were you, i would follow my dreams, become a pro dancer, and just try to ignore his comments, and love him for the other things you do like about him, and prove him wrong.
2006-12-03 09:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by lexi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him. He is undermining your confidence in yourself. He is scared you will achieve your dream and better yourself and find a new partner. If he is upsetting you now how will you feel after two or three years of being put down. Believe me it is not nice so get rid.
2006-12-03 09:12:23 · answer #6 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump his ass and find someone that likes you for you and not some fake who will try to control your life. thats where its going to start he'll say stupid things to bring you down until you give up on dancing then he'll find something else he dislikes about get rid of him before your whole life is taken over
2006-12-03 09:12:38 · answer #7 · answered by phil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he is jealous of your dancing! Don't let him or anyone shatter your dreams! Strive for what you want and if you have to, let him go! Love fades, pride does'nt!
2006-12-03 09:11:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him... hes an insensitive jacka ss! no one should put their boyfriend or girlfriend down, they should be supportive... he is probably afraid that when u are a pro dancer you will forget all about him... which you should cuz hes an idiot!
2006-12-03 09:14:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds jeolous of you, maybe because he hasnt got a dream for himself so he is trying to ruin yours. Leave him.
2006-12-03 09:24:42 · answer #10 · answered by Calais 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to leave him, work it out. Explain that this is your dream, and you want nothing more. If he still doesn't get it, I'm sorry, leave him.
2006-12-03 09:10:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋