I asked him to leave me alone so I could get over him. Should I go back out with him and see if anything is different? It's been a month since we last dated and he's been seeing someone else. Would you have the heart to forgive this?
2006-12-03 08:43:59 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no !! past is past , ex is ex.........he has not changed ,there was a reason that you quit with him!!!people don't change over night !
2006-12-03 08:45:42 · answer #1 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
NO! Don't go back. Move forward. There is a reason why this person is your ex. Not to mention the fact that it's only been a month since you last dated and he is already onto someone else.
He doesn't deserve you. It won't be different if you go back to him. You deserve a nice, special and caring person that will treat you right and wants to share their life with you.
You asked 'Would you have the heart to forgive this?'. I would forgive him only so I could move on to bigger and better things in my life. Not forgive only to go back to him.
Anyhow, all this is only my opinion and you really have to do what you feel is the right thing to do, FOR YOU, not him. Take care.
2006-12-03 09:05:03 · answer #2 · answered by sydney77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, move on . He's seeing someone else let it be. If it didn't work out the first time what makes you think its going to work the second why get hurt again nothing is going to be different. and it doesn't seem to care if hes with someone else. good luck but you will find a guy just for you.
2006-12-03 08:50:01 · answer #3 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He made you feel plain
When he forgot your name
Well let me tell you something,
I have felt the same.
I know you're in pain
But there'll be another Boy along the way and
God he made you beautiful and
There's nothing about you thats plain.
CHORUS
You are jewel you're a treasure
You are one of a kind
And you shine just as bright
As the stars in the sky
You're a rare kind of wonder
Created just right
So keep your head up over the pain
Theres nothing about you thats plain
You tell me you're not the type
The kind of girl that they like
And your a little insecure about
How you look in their eyes.
Well fashion will change,
Trends come and go everyday,
But God only made one of you and
There's nothing about you thats plain
CHORUS
See your mind, it is precious
Though your heart may be restless
And your eyes they will see
All that you're meant to be
'Cause your spirit is strong
And your soul carries on
You'll keep your head up over the pain
There's nothing about you that's plain
You know I've had my days,
When I feel out of place....yea
I look at who I am,
Cover what I can ,
I wish it all would change. But...
Take the makeup away
You see the same girl still remains..
She may not feel that beautiful
But theres nothing about her thats plain.
CHORUS
You may have felt plain,
But...God, He knows your name
Let me tell you something, yeah...
There's nothing about you that's plain
A Christian song by a band called ZOE Girl
The song is called Plain
2006-12-03 08:51:33 · answer #4 · answered by x-c runner♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep in mind WHY he became your EX in the first place. Is this something you really want to try again...or is it better just to move on? He's seeing someone else now...I would let it go and move on in another direction. If it's meant to happen for you and this guy...then eventually you'll find your way back together
2006-12-03 08:49:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. More than a month has to pass for someone to change. Besides, you asked him to leave you alone and he didn't respect your wishes. Maybe after a year or more, but not now. There are way too many fish in the sea.
2006-12-03 08:48:54 · answer #6 · answered by doodle03 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don't forgive someone, who will forgive you next time? We have to learn to forgive all the time. You have to make sure that you both still love each other then you both can get back together. List the weakness that you both want to improve in the relationship. COmmunication is very important. And also honesty. GOod Luck!
2006-12-03 08:46:54 · answer #7 · answered by Crazy in love 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Unless you really want to try it again, stop accepting his calls, don't acknowledge his text messages. Remember why you broke up in the first place, this may help you to move on. If he's seeing someone else, why would you want a cheater anyways?
2006-12-03 09:02:56 · answer #8 · answered by justcurious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i would not go out with him but all he wants is a chance to tell people in the future that you forgave him and tell people that you just said yes cuz you were desperate .... he will just break up with you again as soon as he gets whatever he wants from you and break up to "see other people"..... but you should answer this question with your heart, don't listen to someone else, that is like someone setting your future and the way you date for you.... it is not good :-(
2006-12-03 08:59:37 · answer #9 · answered by hmwh_mwc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally wouldn't go back out with him unless you truly like him still. It depends on how you feel on the subject of him. Also think about how long it was before he started dating someone else.
2006-12-03 08:47:51 · answer #10 · answered by tennischick 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok he says he wants you back but it don't mean it going to be the same, you said dated while he was 1 month apart from you and already with someone he just wants company like his cake and eat it to, like that no way... move on and you could find someone who really wants you for you not... oh i'm bored i'll call my ex back no sweetie. move on good luck
2006-12-03 08:50:57 · answer #11 · answered by e m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋