There's this guy...he kissed me last week and told me that he has been wondering when that was going to happen. We stayed up all night cuddling and talking...nothing more!! He texts me all the time, joking with me and also asking me what I'm up to. However, him asking me what I'm up to never leads to us hanging out. I ask him if he wants to do anything and he just beats around the bush. He is still very upset about a past relationship, and he is a very emotional guy who likes commitment. Is it normal for him to not want to hang out very often? What do you guys think is going through his mind? He also told me last week that he thinks about me a lot and he was very happy when I told him that I think about him a lot. I just don't want to read his signals wrong.
2006-12-03 08:19:39 · 8 answers · asked by kankles919 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actions speak louder than words. I'd go about staying busy and making myself happy. If he wants to be with you, he'll make the necessary adjustments to his life to make sure he sees you. Right now, it just sounds like he likes knowing you're there and available. I'd distance myself and see his reaction.
2006-12-03 08:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by clarity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT sounds like he likes you but just wants to take things slowly and probably doesnt want to get hurt or rush things. Hes probably trying to figure out if you are the right person for him in his life. Dont get carried away. Just enjoy what you have now and be patient. Good luck!!
2006-12-03 16:22:26 · answer #2 · answered by brownsugar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cares about you he'll ask you to hang out. You can't force something on someone if they're not ready. Just wait for him to ask you to hang out if not, then blow him off, I mean really, do you really want someone like that in your life. Look at how it's making you feel.
2006-12-03 16:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by mznylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its normal... just be friends for right now.. you really dont want to rush into anything especially if he just got out of a relationship.. just be friends with him... he'll appreciate that more.. then when time passes you'll probably get an answer from where he wants to take it...
2006-12-03 16:26:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that he really likes you but might be afraid to get close cause he has been hurt. just be there for emotional support and if he is really into you he will come around. but DO NOT rush into the bed cause that would ruin all of it for both of ya ok!
2006-12-03 16:29:31 · answer #5 · answered by jeannie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's torn...don't ask him if he wants to do anything anymore...let him be the one to suggest getting together...if hes' really into you it won't be long before he'll want to start exploring a relationship...
2006-12-03 16:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants sex, but he's too afraid to make a move on you. End of story.
2006-12-03 16:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by Axel 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Just talk to him about it!
2006-12-03 16:22:40 · answer #8 · answered by lttlbt22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋