i have this boyfriend and we've been going out for a month now and im starting to like him..see the trouble is i still like this boy....i mean i like him so much..and i feel bad going out with this guy becuz i dont really like him dat much..i mean i like him but i dont like him the way i like the other boy...what should i do im not happy in the releationship...shuld i break up or something else HELP PLZ
2006-12-03 08:05:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't like a guy like that whether you like another guy or not, you shouldn't be with him. If you keep leading him on and leading him on he will get even more hurt in the long run than he will if you just end it now.
2006-12-03 08:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by lolly679 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy you are going out with obviously likes you as more that a friend, and you only like him as a friend. Don't get all defensive when I say this, but THAT IS NOT FAIR. Not to you nor to either of the guys. Break up with him. Now.
While you are running around trying not to get hurt, someone else is hurting in your place. It's called being in love with love. It's when you are so afraid of getting hurt that you don't realize the other person's feelings. Because if you are dating this boy when you don't really like him, that is leading him on. That means he is hurting inside. Being single isn't that bad.
2006-12-03 08:13:29 · answer #2 · answered by <3 See Jane Run <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having feelings for several people at the same time is not unusual.
From the way you write, I have to assume that you are yet too young to be thinking of a serious relationship.
So, dating ( meaning going out, having fun, non-sexually) two or more guys is OK. In fact, it's what you ought to do, so that you get to know and appreciate different attributes about each one.
2006-12-03 08:13:48 · answer #3 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should follow your heart. I have been in this situation three times now and I always chose the other person instead of my b/f because I listened to what my heart was saying. Because you apparently aren't that happy with your current b/f if you're still wondering about this other guy. I hope this helps...
2006-12-03 08:10:53 · answer #4 · answered by broken_wingz_87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not happy with the guy you're with, you shouldn't be with him. There would be no point in the relationship. Both should be happy, not just one. If you're not happy with your current boyfriend but you think you'll be happy with the other, I'd say go for it. What have you got to lose? Well, good luck! And I hope I helped.
2006-12-03 08:10:59 · answer #5 · answered by Brittany Rae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not happy in the relationship, you should gently break up with the boyfriend. Give him a chance to find someone that does like him "that way".
2006-12-03 08:09:00 · answer #6 · answered by NAN G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea u need 2 stay wit d guy u luv the most out of d 2 guys
2006-12-03 08:08:54 · answer #7 · answered by #1_cute_baby_gurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your not happy leave. It's not fair to the boy your dating if you like someone else more.
2006-12-03 08:08:15 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say don't break up with him. If u are starting to like him then stay with him he might be the one for u.
2006-12-03 08:11:46 · answer #9 · answered by TJ Jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..is the boy goin to go out with you? or does he like you? if so brakeup wit ur bf and go out with him if u like him better!
or if u dont no if he likes i find out..and yah
2006-12-03 08:10:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋