I think that I like to run around too much because I love a lot of attention and when one is not available I can get it from another therefore I have not yet classified anyone. Please tell me some points that I can use to know whether one is right and the others not.
Thanks
2006-12-03 08:04:08 · 17 answers · asked by ◄☯♫ vanitee of vanitees ♫☯► 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not so much about choosing one, as figuring out what you want, so you know it when you see it. The better you know yourself, the more likely you'll recognize the guy who's a good match for you.
If you love to be physically active, a couch potato isn't a good match, for example. If your idea of heavy exercise is picking up a heavy book and carrying it to the nearest chair, then Mr. "Let's Go Jogging" isn't for you.
You think you like to run around "too much" (too much by whose standards?) because you "love a lot of attention, and one is not available, I can get it from another." That's a powerful thing to know about yourself. How will you feel if you're in a committed relationship and have to restrict how much you flirt with other guys?
When you meet someone you think might be "the one," then you have to ask yourself if you're ready to commit to one guy and be loyal - because if you're not, and you really like him, you won't tie him to someone who will chafe at having to restrict herself to him - if he's busy that day, there's no running after another guy to get your attention fix.
If you're not really ready to settle with anyone, that's okay too. Enjoy playing the field and meeting as many people, male and female, as possible. What isn't okay is asking someone to trust you with his heart if you're not ready to give him yours.
2006-12-03 08:12:56 · answer #1 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If u r on the net asking about how to choose a boyf, then, u have definitely not yet the one that should be your boyf. But, in case u have & hhaven't recognised that yet, then, u should go with what u like..ie.. like the lots of attention thing. Try sticking with the one that pays u loads of attention at least out of all the other options u have on ground now. But then, we'r women, so, u'll probably get bored easily with someone that pays u loads of attention all the time.
Hon, no one can tell u how to choose ur boyf., Just go with ur guts. Who do u have loads of fun with? Who can u talk to the most? Who do u like to be with the most? Who do u miss the most when they r away? Who do respect the most? Its all up to u of course unless u have other criteria by which u would want a boyf which has nothing to do with love like say status, etc....
So, goodluck settling for one. And remember, maybe u just haven't met that one just yet!
2006-12-03 08:35:12 · answer #2 · answered by Mama's Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some qualities are impostant to match yours:
*Outdoor/Indoor person
*Level of Romance
*Religion
*Type of Feeling u guys have
*Age : 6yrs of difference is the max
Things you need to consider and look for in a guy:
* Does he care enough to listen to you (to ur problems even if he's not in the best mood)
*Does he SHOW you he cares and loves you
*Does he want to meet your family and do they like him
*Does he think about a future with you
*Does he completely forget there are other girls in the world when he's with you
*Does he support you
*Spend money without you asking
*Cares about HIS family and his education
*Call you, Kisses you on your forhead, and plans romantic dates for no specific occasion
if you find him don't let him go and yes there are people like that out there
don't date a player and don't date if you have doubts about him
as they say: love a person with all your heart or don't be with them
2006-12-03 08:12:30 · answer #3 · answered by M T 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I always like to be the guys friend before I'm his gf...that way I get to know his personality first...I think personality is the first thing you should look for (how I admit I DO notice looks first..lol..im only human). Things like he's: caring, independent, funny, will pay for dinner even IF you do pull out your wallet first :)...
2006-12-03 08:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by soulfullilangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love.
2006-12-03 08:05:40 · answer #5 · answered by Melody 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and stop looking. you may be looking in the wrong places. just be patient when you least expect it you might have one. Just have fun and enjoy your life, life is to short to worry about getting a boyfriend. good luck.
2006-12-03 08:09:21 · answer #6 · answered by misty blue 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
# 1 size does matter
# 2 macho is bullcrap
# 3 personality in uber important
2006-12-03 08:07:13 · answer #7 · answered by J-Dub 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
trust and caring are 2 big ones
2006-12-03 08:06:33 · answer #8 · answered by Chelsea J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can't figure this one out on your own then I would say find a rich one. It's your only hope.
2006-12-03 08:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by Rez 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think you should look for how he treats his friend and family so i say become there friend before you have anything more and if he is a good friend he will be a good bf
2006-12-03 08:09:42 · answer #10 · answered by you dont know me 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋