I met this guy a while ago he's so nice and friendly(Not to mention hes really hot and has blue eyes yummy!!)Anyways he broke a guys nose and now he has to go to prison for 4months :(
He sais he only wants to date me when hes comes out of prison and doesnt mind being "good" friends with me for the moment(He said he loves me in friendship)So whatdo y'all think
And no he doesnt wanna just sleep with me(I know this for sure!!)
peace thanks God Bless!!
2006-12-03 07:59:16 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is being a good man by letting you live your life while his is on hold.
Prison is like limbo. Life goes on outside the walls but it stops inside. Being incarcerated is hell, he doesn't want to put you through it.
Be there for him. Write to him. Wait for him, that's what he really wants.
2006-12-03 08:08:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm not sure what it is you want. He sounds like a loser. It couln't even be his first offense. PRISON for a broken nose?!? He must have some record there. I say run in the other direction, honey, really. Not becaue I think he just wants in your pants but because he may wind up in jail more often than out and you deserve a full time guy not a part time con.
2006-12-03 16:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by outdone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say give him a change but keep ur distance a lil bit cause if u start denying him all the sudden then he might break ur nose too lol jk but na u shouldn't think bad about people in jail cause sometimes its with a perfect reason like me this chick wanted to fight me so we were but after school but then when we were in the looker rooms she took a knife out on he so i just grabed a lock and slamed it on her lip and nose and i broke both of them i went to juvie for 4 months but still i had a good reason and right now i have been dating a guy i met in juvie and this is our 2nd year together and ven thought that was one of the mad things i have done well i still gave him a chance and u never know may~b hes ur right one
2006-12-03 16:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by ~LIL MZ.MENUZ~ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it for what it's worth. Sounds good to me, about being friends at the moment. I have heard of guys trying to get a lot of women so that they can take care of them in jail and then dump them when they get out. Be a friend as much as is allowed and see where it goes from there.
Hope breaking the guys nose was self defense and not an anger problem.
good luck, Chica. Take is slow
2006-12-03 16:05:28 · answer #4 · answered by betterthanhers 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow this is scary. Do you want to wait around for him? Do you think you would want to be with someone that is breaking other guys noses and is going to prison? You will have to be the judge of that since none of us know the circumstances behind this.
2006-12-03 16:02:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
So this is all about him? He wants you to put your life on hold while he goes to jail for something he did? How is that your fault? Why would you make excuses for someone who has control issues? Do you not think you deserve any better? Would this make your parents proud? Or would you find yourself making excuses for him to them, too? Who cares what he looks like? He doesn't care about the guy he assulted looks like. you have seen a glimpse of his true colors. Do you think you can change him? Do you think that he will change for you? Is it the challenge of trying to change him that attracts you? If so, you are a fool and you'll get what you deserve. Karma always takes care of people.........
2006-12-03 16:10:30 · answer #6 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, he lost his temper and broke somebody's nose but who hasn't dreamt of doing it some time in life. He is being punished for it now and he is fully aware of the fact that in prison he cannot expect to have a relationship with you. I actually think this chap is being very reasonable. If your feelings are strong enough for him, keep in touch and wait until he comes out.
2006-12-03 16:10:44 · answer #7 · answered by ladysorrow 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just wondering if he's "so nice & friendy" why did he break some other guys nose? It just seems odd to me your statement vs his actions. If you feel comfortable dating/ having a friendship with this man, this is really no one's business except yours. Only you know what goes on behind closed doors. Peace :-)
2006-12-03 16:03:21 · answer #8 · answered by NautyRN 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Um, run the other way, fast. No one goes to jail for four months JUST for breaking some guys nose. So now we know he's violent and is going to jail. And he doesn't want you. And you'd stick around why?
2006-12-03 16:01:56 · answer #9 · answered by Ade 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You really need to be super careful cause if he has to go to prison for fighting it sounds like he has anger issues, and u dont know what can trigger him to take them out on u.
2006-12-03 16:05:15 · answer #10 · answered by mesuresowner1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm. well did he break his nose on purpose? if he did, then he doesnt seem like a good guy to be with. if it was a mistake, just wait until hes out of jail. some people get in there for the wrong reasons you know!! good luck to you!
2006-12-03 16:02:34 · answer #11 · answered by Sabrina C 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋