a girl going after my guy.?

Question

A girl I have known forever, but she is not my friend really(anymoe), and she is trying to hook up with my bf. She flirts with him, and one time she has asked him to break up with me and go with her, and he said "no". she knows that he will not leave me for her, but she won't quit. and it bothers me, what could I do to make her stop?

and he can't ingore her sometimes, cause she jumps on him, and tries to make him mad, and tries to wrestle with him.

Answer 1

Have you tried talking to her ,if you haven't then give a try .Let her know that you don't appreciate the flirting with your bf .If she still doesn't stop then ignore her because you already know you bf isn't going anywhere.

Answer 2

Geez, desperate much? Really, there's not much YOU can do. If you tell her to stay away from your man, she'll only try harder. Just warn him about her and tell him to be on his guard. If he were asking this, I would recommend screaming, "Look, __________, what do I have to say to convince you that I don't want to go out with you?!" Get him to read some of these answers — maybe that'll give you both some help.

Answer 3

All you can do, is trust your boyfriend. Maybe talk to her & tell her it really bothers you when you feel like she is trying to take someone very important to you away. But, even if she doesn't stop just be happy atleast you know your boyfriend isn't going to fall for her.

Answer 4

Keep confidence in yourself and don't acknowledge it. You have to have trust in your relationship or it won't work. If she is the type of friend that would do this to other people, then she is going to be miserable and none of her relationships are going to work.

The best revenge is living well, so try not to let it get to you.

Answer 5

go to her and tell her if the shoe the other way around would she like it. But your boyfriend said no to her. so i don't think you have to worry. If push comes to shove maybe your boyfriend should speak up and tell her to stop. just don't let it bother you shes not worth the aggravations and getting all up set. good luck keep your head up high.

Answer 6

Honestly honey, it sounds like this girl is still in your life, correct? Drop her, tell her to take a hike. If your boyfriend is true to you, he'll stick with you. That little tramp will be dust in the wind. If he does buy into her, he's not worth it. You could do better;)

Answer 7

You need to set boundaries and tell her to back off and leave you two alone and that he is not interested in her whats so ever, he needs to say something in sense as well to better your relationship with one another Do not be afraid to speak up tell her how you feel and it is making you feel angry and uncomfortable.

Answer 8

Confirm her, you knew her your whole life. You can't just keep letting her go after your guy. Or tell your boyfriend to avoid her and try not to talk to her. Maybe you can ask your boyfriend to throw her off, so she won't be back.

Answer 9

absolutely nothing leave it up to him to handle the situation, I have never met a woman who kept going after a man who shut her down from the start, tell him to let her know that he is not interested in front of you then you make sure your not getting played for a fool by what he says he is telling her or coming to tell you.

Answer 10

Sounds like you have a possible psycho on your hands. I'd tell the police right away. Nip this in the butt and try to get a restraining order. She'll probably vandalize something soon.