You know how if you go by "The Rules" a guy has to practically be stalking you and knocking down your door to get a date with you. If I played by these rules I would NEVER get a date. I'm not bad looking, probably about a 7 on a scale of 10. (But I live in California where there a ton of beautiful single women everywhere.) It seems like only the 9s and 10s get guys this interested in them willing to chase them and purue them this much. Am I wrong? What do you think?
2006-12-03 07:37:55 · 7 answers · asked by Sweetgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a fine line to walk on. You have to look available but not easy, interested but not too eager. Guys (like me, at least) like a bit of a chase, but we wanna know that sometime soon we're gonna catch you.
But when you meet someone special, the "rules" go out the window, and you have to make up new rules up as you go along. If a man shows interest in you, and he seems like someone you would like to go out with, just play it cool. It's alright to show a little initiative in getting things moving, so if it seems like he's taking forever to ask you out then you should try asking him out first.
Besides, do you ever notice that the people that talk so much about "the rules" almost never have long-lasting, enjoyable relationships? Follow your own path and things will turn around for you. No worries.
2006-12-03 08:01:25 · answer #1 · answered by randomthoughtpatterns 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your environment, go where no-one else would to seek a friend or relationship. I don't mean the slums. Stay away from the wealthy areas. Money talks bullshit walks. Be adventurous and step out of the ordinary. Be open minded to meeting new and different people. Join social clubs, recreation clubs, sports clubs. Through one person you can meet two more, through two people you can meet six. So if you meet just one person you will begin to build up that pyramid of friends. Be yourself, don't be a phony because the lies, phonie image and attitude will rear it's ugly head at the worst possible moment and you'll be worse off than you were in the first place. Good luck.
2006-12-03 15:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by zzap2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy stalked me and was knocking down my door to get a date with me, I`d be a little scared. It wouldn`t help them at all to get a date with me. I`ve heard of "The Rules," but not rules like this.
2006-12-03 15:41:59 · answer #3 · answered by SRAWRRR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what "the rules" are. I do know that a 7 shouldn't be having problems getting dates unless you're an ice queen (psychologically - I didn't mean physically).
2006-12-03 15:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do agree that women should act aloof around men, but some of the Rules are pure crap. "Don't pay or go Dutch on a date?" Too bad, bitches, I'm paying for my food whether you like it or not. I have my pride, you know.
2006-12-03 16:05:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look about the beauty i think the beauty is the soul's beauty ...you are beautiful because you think and know that you are ...and but i think that you must be more trust yourself more ...give yourself a chance and see what is the results
2006-12-03 15:49:52 · answer #6 · answered by doctorm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send me your info baby wink wink
2006-12-03 15:40:47 · answer #7 · answered by J-Dub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋