2006-12-03 07:37:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
You need to let this bully know that you're not afraid. That's what bullies like...they want you to be afraid of them. I had a problem with this in elementary school, and I was a really nice girl but I couldn't take it anymore so I ended up having to put the bully in her place (I am not advocating violence, but if this bully is getting physical with you then you need to protect yourself). After I stood up to the bully and we fought we were friends after that. Once you stand up to the bully, he'll back down. They get off on intimidating people for a number of reasons. I know it can be scary confronting a bully but if you don't do something he'll torment you as long as he can.
2006-12-03 09:00:01 · answer #1 · answered by tangyterp83 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We've had this problem with our 10 year old before. He was getting verbally abused by a boy almost constantly, and would come home in tears. Here's how we stopped it. First, ALL the facts from your son. Then, with that information, call the bully's parents and explain what's going on. If that doesn't work, you need to talk to the school principal or other higher-up. Keep pushing until something is done. They can't ignore you forever.
2016-03-13 03:02:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I am going to ask do you really want this bully to leave you alone? If you don't-go and tattle tale like everyone else on here is telling you to do. If you do want him to leave you alone this is what you do. The next time you see him at his locker shove his head in it and slam the door. When he steps back holding his head and he is all wobbly kick him in the nuts. Then, when he hunches over take a couple of steps back and kick him in the face as hard as you can. Then, he'll be on his back. Get on top of him and punch him in the face until your hands hurt. Then, elbow him in the face until your elbows hurt. When he gets out of the hospital he will never ever want to mess with you again. Trust me it works. I did it and I never even saw the guy again. I think he moved away. hahah!!!
2006-12-04 09:23:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most bullies are doing it because they feel so bad about themselves so they have to bully people so they can feel good about themselves. Stand up to the bully and don't back down. Go up to him and let him know you will fight him one on one. If he puts up a good act saying he would but he may hurt you, let him know that is fine so have at it. Stand up to him and he will let you be as you will have called his bluff. Most run but when you stop running and cowing down and begin to push back, they run.
2006-12-03 07:44:23 · answer #4 · answered by ramall1to 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well is this bully physical? Did you try having your parents talk to his? Try embarrasing him. Like in the lunch room if he picks on you, loudly respond "you know, i'm really sorry that you are so miserable with your own life that you feel it necessary to make mine miserable, but i'm sick of you acting like a jerk. you need to get a life. you are acting like a loser"
2006-12-03 08:02:28 · answer #5 · answered by bamagrits84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all violence is never the answer the key is to find the weaknesses and say something about how there being immature and they need to grow up then see the change in them cause nobody wants to feel like a little kid tell them how childish it is acting that way i hope my advice helps you out.
2006-12-03 07:43:53 · answer #6 · answered by jay316-83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO STAND UP TO THEM DON'T TAKE ANY CRAP FROM THEM!!OR THEY ARE GOING TO THINK YOU ARE SCARED...
2006-12-03 07:47:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋