I have a girlfriend of 9 months and I love her to death and this girl that I see at parties all the time keeps trying to get with me. My g/f works weekend nights so she's never with me and I am against cheating. This other girl is very attractive, but its annoying. She tries calling me and texting me, but ive only answered once and blew her off. I havent told my g/f because I dont want to start an argument, but I did tell this girl I have a g/f but she seems not to care. Also at parties she tries to get me really drunk, but I wont bc I know what she's trying to do. Should I be an asshole to her and tell her to get lost or what bc im going to see her at the same parties I go to in the future (shes friends w/ my friends g/f) and it may be even more awkward. anything will help!
2006-12-03 07:28:51 · 15 answers · asked by Mizzou_10 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Correction Ive seen her at a couple parties (not all the time)
2006-12-03 07:37:46 · update #1
First I must applaud you on your choice to stay faithful to your girlfriend, not many guys today care. And on your situation with the clingy female. A nice stern "look I told you before I don't want you, what part of that don't you understand", is a good starter, never being to profane. Then if she still doesn't get it, ignore her like shes the ground you walk on. When you see her look the other way, she'll get the point. But make sure, you tell your girlfriend about the situation, because even if you think it will start an argument, if the clingy chick wants you bad enough, she'll lie about the two of you to your girlfriend, and then you know what will happen. Good Luck!
2006-12-03 07:37:49 · answer #1 · answered by bre714 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First issues first, your risk-free practices. you may't enable him to stay on your place if he hits or threatens you. call the police and press expenditures if he hits you or every person else. in the experience that your son is having unprotected intercourse and doing IV or syringe injection drugs, being pregnant is basically between the failings the girls human beings in his existence could have an interest by. he's at severe danger to acquire STDs including HIV/AIDS and bypass them to his sexual companions and their toddlers. Your son and those women human beings could be examined as we communicate so they could get clinical care if it quite is mandatory. i'm sorry to declare this, inspite of the undeniable fact that it appears that evidently like your son is on the quickly song to all-time low. you may;t help him - he has to make certain to assist himself. grant your self with protection. Take care.
2016-10-17 15:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be like your cool and all but if you haven't noticed im in love with someone else. and if she still doesn't get it then don't answer her phone calls and don't read her text and at partys just walk off. because you don't want to even be tempted to do anything the might mess up what you have with your gf.
2006-12-03 07:32:43 · answer #3 · answered by bballxbaby147 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just explain to her that you're not into her, and if she keeps going, THEN be an asshole to her. Or maybe when she's trying to get you drunk, 'accidentially' spill the drink on her shoes or sumthing. Good Luck :-)
2006-12-03 07:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you are committed and have no desire to cheat and that her advances don't sit well with you. Tell her that if she can't contain herself you would rather she not speak to you because you don't want to hurt her feelings.
She needs to know that manipulation is not working and is not cute on her or any other woman.
2006-12-03 07:35:15 · answer #5 · answered by betterthanhers 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you won't be being an asshole by telling her to get lost. she is clearly desperate and needs to get over herself. tell your g/f. explain to her that you love her and that absolutely nothing happened. since you have been going out for so long, i bet she will understand. she might even have tips on how to get rid of her.
2006-12-03 07:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by happyinblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be with the other girl because she must care alot about you . and your so called girlfriend does'nt even know that she has some feelings for you.
2006-12-03 07:33:16 · answer #7 · answered by Alicia-brandon15 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just turn to her and scream, "Look, __________, what do I have to do to convince you that I DON'T WANT TO GO OUT WITH YOU?!" If she doesn't get the hint by then, send her a bottle of Prozac.
2006-12-03 08:08:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to stop harassing you or you will have to take drastic measures, you are not interested, she is not your type, you are not a player,give her all the messages until she gets the message, or introduce her to some one that is looking, but not particular.
2006-12-03 07:33:24 · answer #9 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her firmly that you are not interested. If that does not work, tell your girlfriend.. You'll have fur flying everywhere, but she'll leave you alone ;))
2006-12-03 07:32:21 · answer #10 · answered by LittleBitOfSugar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋