So my girlfriends friend just broke up with her boyfriend and she seemed a little crazy when she talked about her ex-bf's new girlfriend. Well, I was talking with MY gf about whether or not her friend and her ex every had sex. I told her not to tell her what I asked. The next week goes by and she asks her friend about whether or not they had sex and to top it off, she included that I asked her about it.
What do I do? I told her to keep it private and she didn't.I really really like this girl but I don't wanna keep dating her if she can't keep personal convo's private.
I'm asking again because I left out details
2006-12-03 07:24:30 · 18 answers · asked by azwethinkweizmthebrave 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Saint G...nothing that I know of, I haven't done anything with her that I want private other than telling her that
2006-12-03 07:35:53 · update #1
Don't tell her anything. When it pisses her off that you don't talk to her, tell he why. If you can't trust her with personal opinions and information what CAN you trust her with?
2006-12-03 07:26:34 · answer #1 · answered by dancing_in_the_hail 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remind her gently that when you asked about her friend, you had wanted her to not mention that you had asked. Just keep reminding her whenever you say something to her that you want kept private, to keep what you said private. If after all the times that you've asked her to keep what you said private, she doesn't keep it private, then either you just stop talking to her about things you want kept private or you have to find someone else that you can trust.
2006-12-03 15:30:59 · answer #2 · answered by paranoid_much 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've had the same problem with guys i dated. if you can trust her to keep secrets than you should move on. some people just can't keep their mouths shut when they know something (i even have friends like that). if you guys go out, do you want her to tell people what you both do or talk about??? this is a preview of what it will be like if you guys start going out. its better to know now than to know later.
2006-12-03 15:31:39 · answer #3 · answered by truth hurts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta be straight with her. Tell her that when you tell her you'd like to keep things private you mean it. And maybe it makes you feel uncomfortable about her going and saying things you asked her not to say during your private conversation with each other. She might not realize how much it is affecting you.
2006-12-03 15:28:18 · answer #4 · answered by bballbabe725 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and tell her you are finding it more and more difficult to have conversations with her because she has such an issue keeping things to herself. She is either very immature or just a busy body. Both are very unflattering. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-03 15:28:42 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply don't say things to her that you don't want to get back to others. Let her know that you are aware she has an issue with keeping things to herself.
Some people just can't keep a secret...anything they know, they feel the need to share with everyone they know...
2006-12-03 15:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is a blabber mouth and anything you say will be the news of the neighborhood. Maybe you should move intothe vacant spot with the left over gir and see waht happens.
2006-12-03 15:28:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is a sucky gf and obviously likes a lil drama. you might want to ask yourself how much you like her, cause it doesn't seem like she cares to much what you say. and you should be able to trust her and obviously you can't. so make a choice. keep someone you can't trust or move onto something even better.
2006-12-03 15:27:55 · answer #8 · answered by bballxbaby147 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her how you feel and never tell her anything important. let her know also if you can't trust her there can never be an relationship. trust is more important then sex, because you can get that from anywhere
2006-12-03 15:29:56 · answer #9 · answered by BLUE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lolz. This is the problem with most of us(girls). If you are really tired of this and want to get rid off, you have to be a gay!!
2006-12-03 15:30:12 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Luck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋