This guy I went out with once didn't call me until 2 weeks later, apologizing like crazy and saying he really wanted to see me again. Didn't call all weekend, not expecting him to call for a bit like last time. Don't intend on letting him get away with it, but my question is, is he doing this to keep me around like a Plan B? Or just being polite?
2006-12-03 07:23:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well seems like a good consensus :) Here's some details to the date if it helps any:
So Tuesday i go out with this guy and we met at the monuments (just fyi i live in DC). We were supposed to just hang around there for just a bit but then he says "not being too forward, but if you feel comfortable do you want get some sushi afterwards?" and I agreed. Conversation was great and all that...at one point he goes (and dont make fun i know its silly) "you are one HELL of a woman". He also didnt let me pay for dinner, which i knnow doesnt mean anything but ive dated cheap bastards lol. So since I felt bad that he paid he said that I could buy him coffee afterwards. Fine, we go to starbucks near my dorm and get coffee and sit down to talk again for like an hour or so (conversation always good as usual.) So i get up to walk him to the metro, which is right in front of my dorm and as we're walking hes like "well is there any movie you'd like to see, id really love to hang out with you more..."
2006-12-03 07:35:48 · update #1
I said sure, and we get on the bus to Georgetown. So we just walked around the harbour and gtown and just fooled around Barnes and Nobles. Actually in B & N he was trying to show me a pic of some marine sniper which i actually thought was pretty interesting so he goes "ive never met a girl that liked this stuff...cool.." (I took that as a good thing). Anyway, we take the bus back to near my place which is in front of the metro. We had a semi awkward moment of not knowing how to say goodbye, and just ended up getting a hug :( As i was walking to my place he texts me thanking me for the coffee, so I thank him for dinner. I don't respond to his "My pleasure" but later get a text saying "have a good night and sleep well." I text him the next day supposing it was ok just to be stupid and tell him I was moving into another building, which was followed by a brief non consequential text conversation. The next day he emails me saying "I hope you dont mind we don't have to email anymore....
2006-12-03 07:39:41 · update #2
since we exchanged phone info and shared sushi the other evening, I hope your move is going smoothly." (i took a bit of offense to that for some reason.) He left for out of town Friday, and was supposed to come back Sunday, in which my friend said it was ok to wish him a safe trip back...again leading to a brief text conversation, but still no phone call.
I know this is ridiculously long guys, but thanks for the input!!
2006-12-03 07:40:16 · update #3
well, as a guy, i think you are the back-up plan B in case of the failing of plan A. guys always keep their bases covered, and no, we are not as stupid as one may think. a man can be just as devious as anyone else. plus, he can also brag to his buddies how he has you hanging around, just waiting for the phone to ring. think about it.........
2006-12-03 07:31:59 · answer #1 · answered by chris r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like from the first part he could have been interested in someone else, but it fell through. Do what you want to do, but realize you may not be the only one he is going out with. Take your time in getting to know this guy if you feel comfortable. If you do not feel comfortable and want this to end then tell him you are not interested. Trust your instincts. If this guy is not safe then do not spend time around him.
2006-12-03 14:35:36 · answer #2 · answered by adobeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
puh-lan B baby!
don worry though... you can always find out who else hes seeing and slip in with a glass blade or a garrote... but when you use a blade make sure to wear gloves as they retain fingerprints very well and also remember to snap off the blade in the wound- preferrably in the neck. now... while using a garrote is easier and not as hard to get you should still go with the blade as it is a classier way of killing someone- and guys respect that
so if you really want him you will kill the other girl cleanly and efficiently with a glass blade
2006-12-03 07:27:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are a plan B girl to me.
2006-12-03 07:25:59 · answer #4 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What wrong with you. that guy is so in love with you. he bought you something to eat and he asked you if you wanted to go any where else. you better stay with him.
I would love a guy like that to hang around and stuff .your so lucky so don't **** it up.
2006-12-03 07:46:33 · answer #5 · answered by Alicia-brandon15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boy is hiding something like girl, kids or something thats pre occupying him, he probably has good intentions on spending time with you......keep it moving life is too short to be a plan b girl
2006-12-03 07:29:53 · answer #6 · answered by libra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like a plan b
2006-12-03 07:26:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seem like he keeping you as plan B just move on
2006-12-03 07:36:50 · answer #8 · answered by katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has Gf..Dont pay attention to him.
2006-12-03 07:26:23 · answer #9 · answered by agentaita1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just PLAN B!!!
2006-12-03 07:26:05 · answer #10 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋