Hello I met this shy girl and we had a great conversation and exchanged phone numbers. I msged her asking her out and she said she's busy for this weekend.
Should I just move on? thanks.
2006-12-03 07:13:43 · 14 answers · asked by Vince 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
haha ask her for the next weekend! then if she says shes busy again ask her when shes free and if she doesnt answer THEN move on
2006-12-03 07:15:22 · answer #1 · answered by Jackie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a girl (myself!) if a guy asked me out & I liked him I'd most probably say yes & if I said no it's be for these reasons:
1. I was genuinely busy & had made prior plans (which I'd try & change for him if I possibly could)
2. I was insecure (or shy) & the prospect of going out with him was daunting (in which case you should give it another chance & if she still says no I'd ask her directly, are you inetrested in going out with me or should I stop calling & bugging you?!)
3. I was having a bad week & needed time...
if you meet someone that you click with, you'll both know it & would get on well & be able to communicate. Just don't force it that's the worst thing you can do, being detached is very important. .
these are just my opinions but I hope it's helpful..
Hope that helps!
with luv
2006-12-03 07:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by glgl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not just yet, she might really be busy this weekend. Ask again next weekend. Then the one after, if she says she's busy then again, ask her if she'd like to go out when she's free. If she says she'll still busy, then it may be time for you to move on.
2006-12-07 02:05:47 · answer #3 · answered by Tamzi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way, no one every got anywhere quiting at the first sight of trouble. Look, let me level with ya, she is shy IE insecure, you need to reassure her of things, Instead of simply asking her out (which she might think you are doing to be polite) let her know how you feel about her, meet up as friends and then flirt with her, Touch her often but subtly and let her know that you appreciate her, tempt her, thrill her and dominate her. Good luck
2006-12-03 07:19:53 · answer #4 · answered by ANTJOHN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you should move on as i have found out when a girl says i will let you know when i am free is no, i hate when girls do this why can they just tell the truth! and say no it will be much easier, but girls are never easy!
2006-12-03 08:06:57 · answer #5 · answered by country_traveller 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont give up yet!
She might have had plans, or maybe she just wants make sure that you wont give up on her easily.
Ask her out again.
Good luck
2006-12-07 07:19:14 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her a text asking if she will be free anytime THIS year, if she says no the move on.
2006-12-03 08:13:02 · answer #7 · answered by Label Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your time shes shy give her a bit of room. try again later in the week
2006-12-03 07:18:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try again maybe she is really bz. After the 2nd invitation and she say she is still bz... hmmm i think that is the time of moving on.
good luck
2006-12-03 07:21:02 · answer #9 · answered by anne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out for another week.Try next week.
2006-12-03 07:17:17 · answer #10 · answered by Whitney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋