My boyfriend dumped me,
for no apperent reason at all.
I asked his best friend, and he wasn't sure either.
He hasn't been out with anyone at all since he dumped me.
I don't even see him talk to girls.
Am I ugly, or fat, or something?
Has he become gay because of me?
2006-12-03 07:11:28 · 20 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WOW, yeah, this guy might be in depression or something because he has alot of signs. try to talk to him as a friend and ask him what is wrong. tell him that if he ever needs to talk you will be there for him.
2006-12-03 07:14:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r not fat or ugly. I can't answer the gay question, but if his friend doesn't no, (i mean his bff) than it is possible his parents don't want him to have a girlfriend or he is just a lazy bum who would rather play video games. Sometimes bios r just weird. Forget about ur old bf as well as u can, and find someone else who c's you as someone 2 b cherished. It is also possible that he is gay. lol.
2006-12-03 07:16:40 · answer #2 · answered by puffalump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, people don't become gay...they are born that way. Perhaps the situation doesn't have anything to do with you at all...maybe he simply doesn't desire to be in a relationship right now (I've known guys like that).
Although he didn't share his reason with you, he had one (or more) for breaking up...that doesn't make him crazy, even if you are driving yourself there trying to figure him out.
2006-12-03 07:21:53 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im bi. and since being homosexual is not a choice, he could only have realized he was gay when he was with u and it would have came out sooner or later and not becuase of u.
when a breakup happens u naturally feel a lot of emotions and blame urself, but its not ur fault and u just have to be strong until u start to feel normal again. ♥
if he cant comunicate why he doesnt want to be with u anymore, i doubt he was ready for a serious relationship anyways
2006-12-03 07:24:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's just because there is someone else he likes but he doesn't want to tell anybody. I was the same way when I got rid of my old girlfriend and no he has not gay because of you unless he makes out with other guys.
2006-12-03 07:17:12 · answer #5 · answered by Dude Man 29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably discovered he was gay. It had nothing to do with you or the way you look. People are born gay. Maybe he met someone but he is keeping it a secret because it is a guy. He is just gay!!!
2006-12-03 07:17:24 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah is yo mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit thinking dumb crap to begin with, maybe he is insecure about something and thinks he's the fat and ugly one.
Guys can have a hard time talking about their feelings, maybe one of his friends can find out what he's thinking for you.
2006-12-03 07:15:19 · answer #7 · answered by Sean 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See you can never know exactly what anyone is thinking. Even if they give you an answer, it maybe be only part of the truth.
2006-12-03 07:14:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sarah, I always check out a girls picture real carefully, if it is provided, and I must tell you this guy's got to be crazy to dump a pretty girl like you.
2006-12-03 07:38:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay removed from him, and if he makes that impossible then checklist him to a pair government. He would desire to be very dagerous and that i wiould checklist him to somebody if i felt threatned in any way. Your call to make, yet while your rather scared tell somebody.
2016-10-13 22:29:54 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋