my girlfreind broke up with me 2 week ago. even though she loves me she said she doesnt want to be in a relationship anymore.... and i havent given her much space since.... if i let her be on her is there a chance she will want me back, or could it be too late?
2006-12-03 07:08:41 · 11 answers · asked by Dan W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most of the time gone is gone. There is probably more to it than you know also.
2006-12-03 07:10:02 · answer #1 · answered by Sean 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sit back and think of exactly what you want to tell her, making a list in your mind. Call her up tell her you want to talk to her, not seeming too attached to her, because that will make her pull away even more. Pick a public place to meet her, not too fancy because it will seem like you're trying to impress her. Go, tell her how you feel, and then give her time to react, even tell her she doesn't have to tell you then and there, you just want to enjoy the night with her. And do just that, have fun. If she sees you're being mature about the whole situation, she may just change her mind. Good Luck.
2006-12-03 07:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by bre714 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time and space and if she loves you she will be back. Fear does stuff to people and the harder you push the faster and harder she is going to get from you. In you granting her space you are letting her know that you repeat her wishes and her as women and if she wants to be left alone fine. That also means you can see other people or At least be seen talking to other people. Get my drift. Make her think you are ready to move on and not going to be her shoulder to cry on when she is done doing what ever it is she is doing.
Good luck I hope it works. and you get your girl back
2006-12-03 07:16:35 · answer #3 · answered by tasha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you need to try to give her her space still keep in touch with her andbe her friend i cant really tell her if its over though... it kinda depends on her there but just dont annoy her with the same questions if it doenst look like she wants to talk then i guess just let her be for a lil bit good luck
2006-12-03 07:14:09 · answer #4 · answered by shorty_rdb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is always a chance... two weeks isn't a long time, give it more. Never bad mouth her, always respect her and her family and friends, keep things civil...
My husband and i were seperated for years before getting back together and ending up married with children.
2006-12-03 07:13:53 · answer #5 · answered by vintage00gypsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you let her be there will be less of a chace of her hating you. if you follow her around and don't give her space you will just creep her out. give her some space, back off, but remaian friendly. maybe then you two can become friends.
2006-12-03 07:21:23 · answer #6 · answered by happyinblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should give her some space. there is no use of forcing her when she don't want to. if she really loves you she'll be back sooner or later. and if you are ment for each other you will be together.
2006-12-03 07:16:54 · answer #7 · answered by anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its never too late. 2 weeks is nothing at all. Go ahead and tell her how special she is. Good Luck.
2006-12-03 07:11:31 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Luck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is gone than let her go.After a week or 2,usually it's done and over with.
2006-12-03 07:13:56 · answer #9 · answered by Whitney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its never to late, tell her you dont want a relationship either, you just want to hang out with her, it takes the pressure of her, and you can still see each other.
2006-12-03 07:44:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋