Do u have a relationship with ur father?

Question

if u dont howcome? And if u do what is ur relationship like?

Answer 1

my dad loves it when i suck him

Answer 2

my relationship with my father isn't that great...it's pathetic. my parents are still together and i live with them but my father and I rarely ever speak to each other.
he's a work-aholic, who is money hungry and ignores his family 99% of the time.
not much of a father, but when he's old and gray and living in a retirement home, he's gonna wonder why knowone is coming to visit him.
and it's gonna be because he payed no attention to us when we were children. so why should we return him the favor.
although i know myself and i wouldn't just leave my father in a retirement home, i'd go visit him like a good daughter should do.

Answer 3

My Dad and I have a really good relationship now, before it was really bad because he was an alcoholic, use to drink a lot and physically abuse me, he still is an alcoholic but has been in recovery for a really long time and got therapy so he doesn't physically abuse me anymore. I'd say we are really close now and I like how our relationship is now.

Answer 4

My father left my mom with 4 daughters, two teens and two small children, to run off with the hootchie he was sleeping with. My mom gave him half custody, so he moved to Maine (we live in VT) and only called us every other year on christmas.

He would pop in and out of our lives, and it hurt me terribly. I was 4 when he left, and i was devastated. My mom was working days, dad nights. So dad was home all day with me. I loved him more than i can express. My little sister hates him, because he was unreliable. He also was ne of those dads who felt chid support wasnt needed for my mom, which it was, badly.

When we got to be teens, he moved back to VT. He lives about an hour away. I think ive seen him 8 times in 5 years, and mostly when i drove out there to visit, or for Xmas. I have tried and tried, and all the wihle he says he is the one who tried.

Recently i had alot of dental work done. When we were kids, only one of us could afford to have braces, my sister got them. So i am now suffering along. I asked them to send the bill to my dad. He recently called to tell me he couldnt pay the bill, what was this...little does he know, i need surgery to get my wisdom tooth out of my sinus. Hes paying that, too.

I have a weird feeling towards my dad. I still love him, and i want him in my life soooo badly. But as i grow older, i realize, he isnt capable of loving anyone. I hate him. I love him. And when i talk about him, i sit on the verge of tears, like now.

Once he pays the bills, i only want one more thing from him. My half-brother's mother's number, so that i can one day have my brother in my life.

Sorry so long...hope i answered your question though...

Answer 5

I've never been close to either of my parents......both of them were to selfish neither of them wanted give up there own interest for me, since i'm older now i can understand a little....... that you sometimes make decisions that later come back to hurt you later in life.....in his case he has 8 beautiful kids that he barely knows......we are currently in the process of building a relationship right now, it difficult because i'm not a kid and sometime he wants to play daddy when he should just be my friend.....

Answer 6

i had a horrible stepfather who beat my mom and i. i didnt meet my biological father until i was 12. i am now 22. i had this stupid image in my mind that i would meet him and he would take me away from my horrible life. we met for the first time and he took me out to lunch with his wife and stepson. i was on my best behavior and all that junk. he dropped me off at home and promised to call me saying that i could start coming to his house on the weekends. a few days later his wife called my mom and said they wanted a dna test. turns out, i was his. that didnt change anything. i got pregnant at 15 and called to tell him and he asked me if i was getting married to the father and i said no and he said i should and i said you didnt marry my mom and he hung up on me. i took pics of my daughter to his house for a year and left our number on them. he never called. i didnt see him again until i was 18 and i had a son too. he never knew my boy existed. right before i turned 21 i went to his house and showed him pics of my kids and told him that they wanted to meet their grandpa and they asked me all the time why i didnt have a daddy. he cried and apologized for being such an *** about things and said he would call later that week so i could bring the kids over....he never called...so that chapter in my life is closed..there is no relationship whatsoever and we live in a small town and when we see each other we just keep walking.

Answer 7

No, but I wish I could. He passed away when I was in middle school.

When he was alive, our relationship was pretty good. We had similar minds (sense of humor, creativity, intelligence), so we had a lot to talk about. However, he wasn't in town very often because his job required him to travel.

Answer 8

Well when my father was alive we had a wonderful relationship.
We did things together. We talked on the phone regularly, he came to visit often. I was daddy's little girl. We could talk about anything together, and if one or the other needed each other we were there. we could count on one another.

Answer 9

I used to, but my father passed away. He died when I was 18- if I had known him now (11 years later), I'm sure we'd have a great relationship. IT would have been great to have known him as an adult.

Answer 10

yup

he is my good friend

we care about each other very much

I still ask his advice sometimes. He is one of the best people I have ever met. I would probably think that even if he wasn't my father. Many people do think so too.

Answer 11

Nope not for 10 years he decided drinkin and his life was more important than any of his family mother brother or even his children.