okay so i like a guy whose 2 years older than me (im 15, hes 17) and he likes me back equally, if not, more!
were not going out, kind of just enjoying eachothers company sort of shabang, but there are complications with our relationship that are just killing me...
1. his friends are a lot different than mine/me. its like we live in a different world.
2. my parents love meeting guys before i can go anywhere with them, and i dunno if theyll approve of an older guy. but if i talk to them about it, and they say "no" then ill get in trouble if i hang out with him, as oppose to not saying anything, and not getting in trouble because they did not make their rule clear.
3. im young..and i dunno...it seems like im a not less mature even though i can be pretty grown up sometimes.
any advice???!!!! CAUSE I NEEEEDDD HEEELLLPPP!!!!
2006-12-03 06:51:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try going out with him and not tell your parnets casue in three years they will not be the boss of you.
2006-12-03 06:55:51 · answer #1 · answered by MF22 Hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents have a right to worry, and as much you like this guy, your parents genuinely love you and are there for life. It's better to play it safe with your parents, than to lose their respect and trust just for some random guy who you may split up with after a few days (you never know!)!
Many people will say that any older guy who dates a girl younger than 16 has some issues. That's not your problem, but his. Even if his friends/parents approve of you, in the back of their heads, they will be thinking that you are not legally old enough to be in a physical relationship and this may cause friction. It only takes someone influential to tell this guy that you're not mature enough to be having a relationship- and then BAM- you could be dumped.
If he's such a great guy, hang on that extra year. You'll be 16- that way, when you confide in your parents, they'll respect that you waited till you were old enough to handle a relationship.
Enjoy your friendship. Maybe at new year you could sneak in a kiss beneath the Mistletoe. But leave the real relationship stuff for a time when you don't have to consult Yahoo Answers to start one!
2006-12-03 15:02:20 · answer #2 · answered by midsojo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two years is nothing i have hit on girls 4 years older(i'm 15 my grammer sucks).
1.His friend will get use to you,or hate you, it hate you or love you.
2.tell not to act like an a** and just not act perfect, show some fault.
3.(one warning) if he expects head kick his nuts and run.
2006-12-03 15:00:08 · answer #3 · answered by all knowing thank you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur parents but don tell them hes older thats not lieing thats manipulating the truth , the friends part will happen once u r together u ll kno each others lives and then the friends will also accept u and urs will accept him coz if they r ur frinds u ll be able to talk them into it
2006-12-03 15:03:20 · answer #4 · answered by vikram t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm here ! Change your guy, by me ! Sure, that you will love (sorry my poor english) ! I'm a Brazilian guy, from Rio de Janeiro, the best wonderfull city of the world !
2006-12-03 14:57:12 · answer #5 · answered by Fernando Basto 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋