well this guy sam asked me out in a realy cute way.
well,he mailed me a cd and i put it in my cd player and it was josh turners "would you go with me"!
so i called him and i asked him what he was trying to say,well the song said it all he's pretty much asking me out. but im a sophmore and he's a freshman. i dont want to seem desperate for dating a freshman,what should i do?
2006-12-03 06:50:18 · 35 answers · asked by lala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you like him or think you might, go out with him. The sooner you learn NOT to base your decisions on what others may think the better! You are becoming your own person! Good luck & have fun!
2006-12-03 06:52:48 · answer #1 · answered by Tweet 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it doesn't matter!! If you like him, date him. there is nothing saying you can't. and if people harass you about be like, "Look I like this guy and I don't give a f*ck whether he is a freshman or not. He's cool and I shouldn't have to ask you if I can date him." you won't be desperate. all the sophmores here are dating freshman. It doesn't really matter. You are the one in the relationship not them.
2006-12-03 06:53:31 · answer #2 · answered by bg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do not pay any attention to what anyone else thinks about your dating someone younger than you. EVER.
Actually do not care about what anyone thinks about anyone you date for any reason unless he was, in the past, a murderer, or someone with really poor morals.
You can not allow your relationships to be dictated by what society feels is acceptable.
Experience and appreciate all types of personalities that admire you for being who you are... Period.
2006-12-03 06:55:23 · answer #3 · answered by Craptacular Wonderment 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you act like you couldn't care less that he's a freshman, then no one else will care, either. If they try to bust on you about it, tell them to grow up. So there's maybe a 6 months to a year difference in your ages? Big deal.
2006-12-03 06:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with him, you don't have to be his girlfriend to do that. Besides it should only matter what you think not everyone else. IT says alot when a guy goes through that kind of trouble to ask you out, the least you can do is go on one meaningless date with him and get to know him more.
2006-12-03 06:59:08 · answer #5 · answered by a h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you usually don't date freshmans, it won't seem desperate - if he's nice, smart, and cute, it definitely shows you have good taste (no matter how much older you are and even if it's your first date). if he's a not-so-good-looking guy, it might look a little desperate. what really matters is if you'll be happy with him, no matter how cliche it sounds.
2006-12-03 06:55:24 · answer #6 · answered by skigrrl66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wouldnt seem desperate for dating a freshman!
if you like the guy, then age doesnt matter. he seems to like you alot too; the way he asked you was really cute!
the stereotype that girls shouldn't date younger guys is so outdated, i have tons of friends that date people younger than them.
i hope this helps :)
2006-12-03 06:53:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
awww thats really sweet of him.
i know i should say "go out with him already!" but being in highschool myself (sophmore) you rite about the whole older girl than guy deal.
go with your heart. obviosly he's not some immature tool, but one year can seem like 100000 light years sometimes.
i know the cutest couple witg a girl two years older, so i say go for it!
have fun and hope i helped!
2006-12-03 06:54:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, do you like him? My boyfriend (now my ex) had the same last name as me, but we weren't even related, and I went out with him because we loved eachother a lot... but what broke us up were the rumors people started. We kinda listened more to the rumors than we did to eachother. So what I'm saying is, go out with him anyways, and don't listen to those stupid rumors people start.
2006-12-03 06:54:11 · answer #9 · answered by AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion, relationships depend on the maturity of each person, and not their age difference. If this freshman seems mature for his age, i think you should give it a shot, but only if u believe that this relationship is worth the criticism you may receive from other people.
2006-12-03 06:54:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋