she has bought up my dissabled son as well as being a carer f her husband who died in mey, we are a big family but she crys every night and i dont no how t make it better, im,e her eldist daughter just want t make xmas nice f her and my son help
2006-12-03 06:45:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
Hold her hand and look her in the eyes and tell her you love her and that you appreciate everything she does.
2006-12-03 09:52:57 · answer #1 · answered by simon m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a picture of her husband and have it blown up, cropped and put in a nice frame. Have the whole family over for xmas dinner and you do the cooking (or at least help a lot). There is nothing like family and grandkids to help chase the blues away.
2006-12-03 06:50:29 · answer #2 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ah that is sad she probably needs a break, you should do everything over christmas and maybe arrange so she can go on holiday in the new year. If you can't afford to take her on holiday maybe you could fundraise I'm sure lots of people would be willing to help
2006-12-03 07:46:51 · answer #3 · answered by cigaro19 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clean the house for her...do the shopping she needs to do for the meal. Do all you can to help her out so she can put her feet up. Rent a movie you know she loves and insit she watches the movie with a nice drink, a few choclate truffles to enjoy..while you and others do all the work for once.
2006-12-03 14:03:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do the cooking for the day and take her out somewhere nice. Give your mom a break. You do not have to spend a lot of money to do this. Or ask her what she would like to do and give her a surprise.Best of luck.
2006-12-03 08:46:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try doing somthing like naming a star after her, tell her no matter how many stars there are in the sky there is always room for one as big as her.
2006-12-03 07:21:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
buy her a meaningfull gift and spend the day with her and cook her dinner and reminiss about the good times, cry together...its all part of the greiving process
2006-12-03 07:39:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After Xmas dinner, do the washing up. let your mum relax and enjoy a sherry!
2006-12-03 06:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by red devil 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You ask a lot of depressing questions about people dying and stuff.
Maybe you should just be happy in your heart.
2006-12-03 06:51:25 · answer #9 · answered by tofu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make xmas dinner for them number 1.
Make them breakfast..... let son wrap presents and decorate.... etc just improvise :)
2006-12-03 06:47:58 · answer #10 · answered by Ryan M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋