so theres this guy a really like and i cant stop thinking about him, im not sure how 2 tell him cause im afraid he might not feel the same way about me!!! Please help i really want 2 make this work!!!
2006-12-03 06:44:03 · 14 answers · asked by chica101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my guess is the guy already has an idea, cause guys know alot more then we think. i would tell him over the phone, because if he doesn't, he didn't do it to your face. but honestly if he says no, you can move on, even though it sounds impossible you will eventually and it will be his loss. but if you never tell him, you will keep wondering and wondering and you could miss your chance and then you will have the biggest regret.
go on and call him :]
2006-12-03 06:51:31 · answer #1 · answered by bballxbaby147 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh! I so know how you feel it's not even funny! I really like this guy as well, and sometimes I just want to like hug him so hard everytime and just whatever, but I highly doubt that he even likes me! He's so funny and nice, and sorry for my rambling, but I have the same problem as you! Everyone always tells me to just say things, but yeah right--that's not possible, I just can't. I was reading in my Seventeen magazine yesterday, and a good way to get into telling him your feelings and knowing his, is to say something like "oh there's this thing happening on (whenever), and I don't want to go alone!, wanna come?" If he makes up a lame excuse, he probably doesn't like you back or is nervous about hanging out with you, but why would he be? I read that tip, and I was like, 'that's a great way to kind of ask a guy out!'
Anyway, good luck to you--I totally know what you're talking about and I honestly do hope things work out for you!
2006-12-03 15:43:51 · answer #2 · answered by Emma Casey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, I understand. There's this guy that I FINALLY have the courage to tell him I like him, he was my first crush/bully in my Latin class at private school and I started going to public school and now he goes to public school too and at first he didn't talk to me. I heard him be talked about constantly and I ended up finding his screen name listed on his facebook and I imed him and made him guess who I was. So we began to have some pretty nice talks and he would talk about his colorblindness, and his promiscuous ex and everything. We would then start greeting eachother in the halls very nicely and we would smile. I sat next to his ex in math class, and briefly mentioned him and he said that she only had sex with him because she pitied him and he was a virgin, and then she said that he had the smallest one she's ever seen and that everyone hates him and he's the most hated kid in school. And so, I finally feel like he's not a snob and that he's not super popular, and I finally feel like we're on the same level and that I can admit briefly that he was my first crush. But... he hasn't logged on and I never get a chance to. So just build up a friendship and a relationship, flirt and when you think things are built enough, perhaps confess your love and hope for the best. But like I said, it's not that easy, and that's about all you can do. That's life.
2006-12-03 15:02:49 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel im in the samee situation! But u need to talk to him personally and tell him before it's too late. Don't be like me liking a boy since 2nd grade and tell haven't told him now in 8th grade still feeling the same. But really try to get to know him better before the perfect moment!
2006-12-03 14:48:40 · answer #4 · answered by a.j. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not worry about the way he feel you need to solve one problem at a time. 1.the first problem, just walk up to him and tell him how you feel.
let him know you are not expecting him to feel what you feel, but you would like for him to consider going out on at least one date to see if you two could make a couple. you as well as most people need some boldness in their lives.
2006-12-03 14:54:24 · answer #5 · answered by BLUE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there's anything I'd really like in life, it would be for a girl to come up to me and tell me that she likes me. Even if I'd never seen her before, it would make my day. Besides, even if I'm not interested, what's the worst I could do? I'd smile, and say I'm flattered, but not interested.
2006-12-03 15:12:27 · answer #6 · answered by Yes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u go to him n ask him if u can tlk to him. So just take i lil walk n tlk to him about stuff then tell him that u wanted to tell him that hes nice n that u like him alot n wait for his answer to see if he likes u back
or u can ask him in a letter
2006-12-03 14:47:57 · answer #7 · answered by gelcoolgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till his turned around and not facing you and kick him square in the ***. Just say it because this will break the ice and just say it(this is a big turn on for me).
2006-12-03 15:03:37 · answer #8 · answered by all knowing thank you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if hes worth it to be hurt then ask him. do u like him enough to risk being hurt take a chance
2006-12-03 14:47:27 · answer #9 · answered by Synyster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like Nikey...."Just Do It"
get it out so you can move on or know what is next. Good Luck!
2006-12-03 14:46:36 · answer #10 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋