My girlfriend is best friends with her x fiancee. They watch movies at his house all the time, hang out, and just a lot of things that make me uncomfortable...other than that she is the greatest thing ever in my life. What should I do about this situation? She knows that he makes me uncomfortable...but I don't think she knows what an issue it is or how much it bothers me. any ideas?
2006-12-03 06:32:31 · 9 answers · asked by matthewinsea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there is no reason to hang out with somebody you have had sex with when you are with somebody else, tell her you are going out with your ex, to hang, see how she likes it
2006-12-03 06:34:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let her know how much it bothers you. That's the first step. Maybe she'll see him less or at least include you in their activities...if they're really friends. If she refuses to reconsider the situation, then you need to decide if she's really the right person for you.
Frankly, I'm not sure that I would be cool with all the time she's spending with him. I would cool it just because you matter to me more than an ex. You can't make her do anything, but you can decide what's acceptable to you and how you choose to deal with it.
2006-12-03 06:37:56 · answer #2 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I think its a problem. I have a problem with my girlfriend hanging out with her old boyfriend.
The best thing you can do is talk to her about it. Tell her whats going on and how you dont like it. I did that with my g/f and she respects me enough to not see him anymore. Theres a reason why its an ex and not a current boy/girfriend.
2006-12-03 06:38:02 · answer #3 · answered by Mizzou_10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a expert but I don't think that's cool at all. Where is her ex's girlfriend. Is she ok with him hanging out with her. No! Because he don't have a girlfriend. If she really cares she will stop hanging with him and if their relationship was so great why aren't they still together. Put your foot down.
2006-12-03 06:41:28 · answer #4 · answered by neishapooh88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are included it's okay but if you are being left out there is a problem. now if her ex. is gay it is okay, if he is not then maybe there is more to this friendship. why did they break up, maybe you need to get you a friend because they may get back together. it just a matter of time, they are still in love. x fiancee that is not good.
2006-12-03 06:41:32 · answer #5 · answered by BLUE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would bother me too...it's okay they are friends and have a drink or something from time to time, but spending time on one another's home is not a good idea...all it takes is one weak moment and a nostalgic look in the eyes for something to happen that one or both of them might wish they could take back...
Talk to her about how you feel...communication is one of the most important parts of your relationship...
2006-12-03 06:37:14 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's still into him big time....I dated a guy for 5 years then when we broke up I still hung out with him. I left the guy i was dating to get back together with him. You should just step aside!!!!
2006-12-03 07:27:26 · answer #7 · answered by the_one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave them, they are still hung up on there ex. You will never have a true relationship with them with out there whole heart.
2006-12-03 06:37:31 · answer #8 · answered by a h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her.
2006-12-03 06:37:42 · answer #9 · answered by Synyster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋