Me and a mate of mine have fallen for the same guy. He is lovely he is aware that I like him the only problem is that my mate knows that I like him and I think I could make a go at it with him. I have known my mate for ages since secondary school. She says she is not interested in him but I know that deep down she has feelings for him what do I do. One of my mate said dont tell heer but I know that if I do tell her she will be upset.
He is 21 and we are both 19. If I do go ahead with it she may be angry that I didnt tell her but if I do tell her she may be upset with me what do I do Help
2006-12-03 05:51:08 · 22 answers · asked by liz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She doesnt know that I like him but another mate of mine does
2006-12-03 05:55:59 · update #1
Get to him before she does.
2006-12-03 05:53:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's tough, but you know, not many people make much out of a relationship they have when they are your age (so sorry to be patronising), but alot of people do still have the mates that they had at 19, I know I do, and we laugh about the muntas I went out with when I was 19!
I think you are going to go for it with this bloke anyway, but you never know, your mate might surprise you and not actually be too bothered.
2006-12-03 05:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by CHARISMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a heart to heart with ur mate over a bottle of wine, she mite like him but mite not. u'll neva know unless u ask for her honesty and u b honest with her! been there done that! only the guy we were fighting ova actually was still in love with her but now he has a new girlfriend and hopefully he will put her behind him! im almost married neway so it doesnt bother me, we laugh about it now!
2006-12-03 06:11:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you share him.
By this I mean you own the half of his knob nearest the scrot and let her have the other inch. Then every time he wants to give you both one there will be no arguments at all and you will both love and respect each other fully.
Alternatively the idea of mud wrestling seems fair --winner takes both the meat and two veg.!.
2006-12-03 07:07:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 14 years old and not mature enough for a relationship i no that but i cant help falling for guys and me and my mate both like this guy at our school and we both agreed that we should leave him alone because we didnt want eachother to be jelious or upset over a guy
2006-12-03 06:02:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No 21 year old guy is worth destroying a freindship. I was a 21 year old guy once so I know.
Guys have a saying: 'Bro's before hoes'. Don't you ladies have something like this?
2006-12-03 05:55:30 · answer #6 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No friendship is worth risking for the sake of a guy. Guys come and go, friends are forever.
2006-12-03 05:58:43 · answer #7 · answered by KnOwLeDgE_iS_PoWeR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get you bravery and tell her only choice except if you think that some other guy is in the world
2006-12-03 05:54:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you have a good friendship and you dont want to ruin it , then you could give up this guy because a friend is for life and guys come and go
2006-12-03 23:16:01 · answer #9 · answered by n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel like she will be hurt then back off from him. especially if you can't have both of them in the same room together then it's not goin to work out. if you like this guy and he likes you and you don't value your friendship, then go for it. I wouldn't tho.
2006-12-03 05:57:05 · answer #10 · answered by Honey83 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 home 3 off you 1 bed a lot more fun for him & you &her
2006-12-03 05:57:07 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋