Help. What do I do??

Question

If a guy pushes you against a locker and tries to feel you up against ur will, it's considered molestation right?? My friend says no and I should be OK with it. Is she right??
Should I tell someone or just let it drop??
He's like one of the most popular guys but I don't want to be the most hated person in school. What do I do??
It has happened a few times. It started after he asked me out and I said no. It has been both him and his friend. I am a gymnast and don't want to have to quit cuz the whole school hates me.

Thanx!!

Most of the time, when guys ask me out and I say no, they give up, but he and his friend just won't let me be.

Answer 1

Its called sexual harassment. Yes tell someone... your parents.
By the way, your friend is a moron.

Answer 2

A person who would do such a thing is breaking the law. He has absolutely no rights to your body. Either lean in and tell him to seek counsel because he is exhibiting the signs of a potential rapist. Or, tell the school principal and have him diplomatically tell the idiot that there are complaints against him for excessive aggression against the girls at the school. He need not mention names, furthermore, he should tell him that he will be watching and so will other people he has assigned to watch him and that if he is caught, he will be denied an education at that school. If the principal does not do this, contact the police. They have alternate schools for bullies like him. Popularity is fleeting anyway. Just wait until you graduate. I means nothing!

Answer 3

You should tell someone right away. Being popular doesn't mean being a molester. He has no right feeling u, just to get back at u for saying no. Maybe start by talking to ur mom, then u can talk to a counselor at school. You should never be ok w/ something that's done again ur will.

Answer 4

that is molestation. and even if your friend says it isnt, it is, here is the literal meaning of molestation:1. to bother, interfere with, or annoy.
2. to make indecent sexual advances to.
3. to assault sexually.
so yes, it is molestation. you need to talk to a teacher or councilor or maybe principal. you need to tell someone, you can't just let it drop, what they are doing is sexual advances, molesting.

Answer 5

Tell your parents. If they suck at parenting, then tell a teacher. Or your principal. Or anyone with some authority. Chances are this guy will escalate this behaviour until somone (you?) gets raped. Do you want to be responsible for that?

Answer 6

Talk to ur mother abt it, then talk to the counsellor, Also find a NEW friend and a boyfriend, try to keep away from those guys as much possible as you can...........

Answer 7

honestly this guy sounds like he just wants sex and nothing more. Find a guy who can treat you right and defend you from sleeze balls. I wouldnt tell anyone. I just tell the guy to stop and if he dosent tell him you are reporting him or w/e

Answer 8

i think that you need to tell someone...i would tell a consular because they are usually the best people to talk to for stuff that happens at school. when/if you talk to them be very clear that you don't want to have your name said anytime. i mean tell them that you want to be anonymous

Answer 9

Go tell the school counselor ... or if you don't trust anyone there at school, tell someone who you can or do trust, ie: like clergy at the church you attend ....

Answer 10

omg, you really need to tell him the same thing happen to me, (read my post) and that could just get worser, don't worry about your reputation, worry about the danger your in, he will continue to do this because he thinks it is okay, and might try to rape you! tell the teacher, immediatly!