when she unexpectedly said (i love u) and she is serious about that ,how would u answer her?
2006-12-03 05:24:03 · 18 answers · asked by mimo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you love her too? If so then tell her! If not then tell her your not ready for that, but be very careful, this is a very sensitive subject and you could really hurt her if you say the wrong thing. Girls tend to fall in live faster than the fellas so hopefully she will understand.
2006-12-03 05:28:15 · answer #1 · answered by PHAT 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Come on dude!?!!!
I mean do you really have to ask a bunch of strangers what do you say to a girl?
Maybe you shouldn't be dating, after all if you can't be honest and frank with your girlfriend then what the heck are you doin with her in the first place?
Why would you want to ask people that don't even know you how to respond to a question that only you know the answer to in the first place?
If you love her but aren't "in love" with her, then you best tell her where you stand within this relationship.
2006-12-03 13:34:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You gotta tell her the truth about what you feel. If you don't really love her, than why are you in the relationship? Also, saying that she loves you may be a trust thing for her.
2006-12-03 13:29:20 · answer #3 · answered by daniel g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your safest bet would be, "Really?" and kind of look flattered and astonished. That's a good lead-in for ..'I never knew you felt this way' or "Boy, that was unexpected'.
See, then the ball would be in her court to follow up and ask-'Is that a problem'
You know what dude, you're screwed no matter what.
2006-12-03 13:32:45 · answer #4 · answered by reeses30135 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a REALLY bad idea to say NOTHING at all.
What IS a good idea, is to tell her how you feel, even if it means hurting her.
Tell her how much you care about her and dont want to lose her.
Just dont say something you'll regret later.
2006-12-03 13:28:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love her then say it back, but if you don't then i think you should tell her that you don't feel the same,cause some ones gonna get hurt here!
2006-12-03 13:28:30 · answer #6 · answered by Nookie bear 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love her too, then respond in kind. If you do not, then thank her for the sweet words and either leave it at that, or tell her how you feel about her back ('i like you", "I'm fond of you', "I'm falling for you", etc).
Just don't lie...
2006-12-03 13:27:08 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Had that happen and i said Really she said i said kool
it also happens on friends the girl told ross thank you
2006-12-03 13:31:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reply honestly.if you say you lover her when you dont its worse tahn not saying it at all.You should have meaning when you say it as she has meaning when she says it. Explain to her how you feel on thsi issue and tell her if yor ready or not to say that. If shes okay with taht shell give you time and that means she really is worth it casue most girls would be all wtf.
2006-12-03 13:31:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u love her too say i love u 2.
2006-12-03 13:31:10 · answer #10 · answered by shortsagitarius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋