Well I've been dating this guy for almost two months, and he said he liked me a lot, i really like him too, but here is the thing, he told me that he is not the type of guy to have a girlfriend, he has had one or two, but then what does that mean, am I not good enogh to be his girlfriend or something? (we are both in our late teens). And well I know he likes me cause and he takes me to nice places, and I don't know why can't we be boyfriend. I haven't talked to him about it. I'm affraid of the answer
2006-12-03 05:16:07 · 12 answers · asked by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just ask him to clarify his statement so you don't have to keep wondering..don't be afraid, because if it means other than you want, wouldn't you want to know that now before you are more emotionally invested?
2006-12-03 05:18:47 · answer #1 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally that's just a copout! That's when a guy plays those mind games with you. He knows that you like him and you want to be with him but he also know's that if you become a couple than those friends that he possibly has are no more.... Guys have this thing were they feel they can have gf/ but not girlfrineds- they both are different and the same... One has privialges and the other doesn't.
He know's you both enjoy each other but he could possibly cheat on you if you were a couple. He's being honest but yet it's hurting you because you have feeling for him... I would address it and then let it go... If you both are frineds and then he some kind of way starts dating someone then you will feel bad and that's not right!
Address it and let it go.. There's so many more out there.that are looking....NOW!
2006-12-03 13:22:01 · answer #2 · answered by danxtsupamodel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can like you, but still not want to commit to you. When a guy tells you that he is not the type of guy to have a girlfriend, listen! He likes being single, so don't expect too much. Just go with the flow and don't pressure him.
2006-12-03 13:21:26 · answer #3 · answered by gee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, he likes you now, but face it, you're in your late teens. How serious can you possibly imagine being at that age. If you looked on the situation when you are in your 30s, trust me, you'd find it rather amusing.
2006-12-03 13:19:18 · answer #4 · answered by Reo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats just code for he doesnt like you enough for you to be his girlfriend. But he probably still wants you around because he likes you for his company and then some. If you are sleeping with him I would stop. You deserve someone who wants you to be their girlfriend. He doesnt deserve you....
2006-12-03 13:21:09 · answer #5 · answered by amtech33 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's the type that needs hookers and strippers to satisfy his needs. Move on and find a mature loving person that you deserve.
2006-12-03 13:19:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't like commitment; if you stick by his side long enough, he'll let it slide and you could go out.
2006-12-03 13:18:22 · answer #7 · answered by sabotagestrikexx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he takes you to nice places doesnt mean he likes you.maybe he is afraid you will hurt his feelings
2006-12-03 13:19:53 · answer #8 · answered by t-crisis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't like commitment. if he says he doesn't like girlfriend then let him. let him free. he'll not have it. goodluck on whatever decision you take.
2006-12-03 13:28:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SIMPLE U MAD GIRL.............HE IS JUST PASSING HIS TIME....GET RID OF HIM AS SOON AS POSSIBLE........B BRAVE.......BUT LET ME TELL U, U HAVE COMITTED BIG SIN..
2006-12-03 13:44:54 · answer #10 · answered by cool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋