I got dumped last night because he feels his ex's need him. Should I return his christmas gifts I bought or go ahead and give them to him?
2006-12-03 05:11:11 · 18 answers · asked by peggin_beast 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Return them. Why should you give them to a guy who just dumped you for his ex.
2006-12-03 05:23:36 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only reason to give him the gifts would be to try and get him back, maintain his interest or make him feel bad. If you want him to have the gifts for no other reason than to have them, fine. If you're looking for some other outcome, don't. Take them back to the store and get your money back.
Forget about him and move on.
2006-12-03 13:15:31 · answer #2 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Return them or give them to someone else. Don't even think about giving him them. You will look pathetic and make him feel bad. Remember Love is wanting him to be happy, even if that means you are not part of that happiness.
2006-12-03 13:14:49 · answer #3 · answered by lily 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Return them...or, keep them for when you make up. I wouldn't have anything to do with a guy who dumps me for an ex...much less ex's.
2006-12-03 13:16:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Return them, get your money back, then spend it all on yourself. You're gonna need it. Giving him the gifts will not change his mind. Hope you feel better :-( Terrible thing.
2006-12-03 13:18:08 · answer #5 · answered by Jen C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, Duh! return them. If you give it now, even if it's a genuine gift given purely in the spirit of Christmas, he may think, 'she' trying to get me back'.
Even worse, he may even bring it up to his ex and believe me, they'll have a big laugh over it. ( I know because my last boyfriend would play messages of his ex calling him and begging him back--and we laughed and laughed. I was 15 years younger and dumber than I am now).
And he didn't go back because he's needed--he wanted to.
2006-12-03 13:18:39 · answer #6 · answered by reeses30135 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either return them or give them to another friend, and if you find someone else by christmas, give them to your new person
2006-12-03 13:15:18 · answer #7 · answered by Everything falls apart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new guy and give them to him.Or return them , dont give them to a guy that dumped because ex's need him.
2006-12-03 13:17:00 · answer #8 · answered by 123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Return them. Use the money to buy yourself something pretty. Forget him.
2006-12-03 13:18:24 · answer #9 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on what you got for him. If it's something only he can use, give it to him and that should make him feel small and a piece of sh*t for doing that to you.
2006-12-03 13:18:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋