Hi, I live in South America, but every summer I go to The United States to visit some friends and family, but this summer I met this guy and we seemed to have this special conection, I don't know it was perfect, we dated for 2 months, the thing is that I feel so sad now that we are not together, and I really want to know honestly, is there any chance that he would wait for me, cause I'll go again next year, and this time I might stay, but is it too much to ask for 1 year. We're still in touch (he's 19 I'm 17).
Thanks
2006-12-03 05:10:46 · 18 answers · asked by Latina Hottie! W.Chocolate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he felt the same "connection" as you did...good chance he would wait for you. Keep communicating. Good luck.
2006-12-03 05:15:16 · answer #1 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're both quite young and still have a lot of living to do before you settle down for good. I'd suggest not pinning all your hopes on this one guy, you never know what/who is around the corner.
If it's meant to be it's meant to be, call me cynical but what you are basically talking about is a holiday romance. It's great that you found someone to share those two months with, however, the realities of a long term relationship with this guy, may not be as romantic or as perfect as you think. You never know what somebody is really like without investing a lot of time into that person - in the grand scheme of things, 2 months isn't a great deal of time to spend with a person and then to decide they could be "The One".
You have a lot of things going against you, time and distance being just two. I'm not saying it would be impossible to continue to explore this relationship but it will be difficult at best.
Continue as you are and keep in touch, whilst also keeping an open mind - open to the fact that he may not be the one for you.
Good luck to you both and I hope that it works out for you.
2006-12-03 13:25:43 · answer #2 · answered by Witchywoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if it's "too much to ask", but it's asking a lot at your ages.
Rather than ask for a "commitment" that neither of you may be able to make, why not just keep in touch and see what happens? If you both care for each other, the next time you are in the US you will be together again.
You are young and have a whole lifetime ahead of you. Don't limit yourself for such a long period of time. If it's meant to be, it will be. Enjoy yourself, go out with friends and have fun!
Best of luck.
2006-12-03 13:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by Mugsy's Place 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with staying in touch. Just don't get your hopes up. He's 19. To think he's going to keep his hormones in check because of a long distance relationship is a little naive.
See what happens next year. Don't stress,and don't become a recluse. Go out with your friends, and go out on dates. If its supposed to happen, it will. Good luck.
2006-12-03 13:15:29 · answer #4 · answered by Firespider 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you ask him to "wait for you" after just 2 months? Why would you "wait" for him. You are young, enjoy your life!
I suggest you remain friends until you two can be in the same city and date for a year, you'll know him better then!
2006-12-03 13:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by my-kids-mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you know, in a year, many things can happen. you can fall for someone else, he can fall for someone else. Or it may be that you both stay in love. Don't tell him to wait or anything. Contact each other and if you grow fonder of him and he also grow fonder of you, then after a time you ask him if he'll wait for ya. Ok. take care. goodluck :D
2006-12-03 13:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's true love, he will. The same situation happened to my parents when they were in their teens. My mom lived in Mexico and my dad in Kansas. She finished high school in mexico and when she graduated she came back and they got married and were together for 14 years!
Just tell him how you feel. If it's meant to be, it will happen!!!
2006-12-03 13:13:46 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's a lot to ask of anyone...but if he hasn't met someone he wants to get involved with before you return (and neither have you) then there's a chance y'all can reconnect and take the relationship somewhere.
Long distance relationships are tough..especially when you are young and full of hormones (or older and full of hormones)...I wish you the best...
2006-12-03 13:14:45 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..if ure gettin intimate with him...thats a good sign that he will wait for u if ure thinkin of a long term relationship or smthin..
if ure still communicating...thts realli kool....
i would'v waited...most definitely
2006-12-03 13:14:36 · answer #9 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay in close touch over your computers..
Get a webcam..
Do some cybersex..
You can make him wait for you...
2006-12-03 13:12:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋