I have an eating disorder and have fineally decided to get some help im going to see my doctor tomorrow but im so scared i dont know what to say or what to expect i dont want to back out at the last miniute but i feel stupid!
2006-12-03 05:05:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
Bec - There is no shame about having the courage to admit you have a problem and taking responsibility for it by telling your doctor. Do not back out, even if you have to call the nurse ahead of time or tell her or him when you first get there. This is about your life sweety, and whether you have a chance to live a full, healthy one. Its the most important thing you have ever done.
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2006-12-03 05:09:55 · answer #1 · answered by Dust in the Wind 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad you decided to take the big step by telling your doctor. Keep in mind that these people are professionals and DO NOT judge you. There is no reason to feel stupid about this serious problem.
Don't back out at the last minute. Tell your doctor and see what he recommends. Perhaps he can get you on some medicine to help with whatever disorder you may have.
I wish you the best of luck and please - for your sake and those who care about you - tell your doctor.
2006-12-03 13:08:19 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have battled Anorexia for 12 very very long years and I commend you on getting help. It is crucial that you do if you want to live and be happy. It takes a lot of courage and if you have come this far you can do it. Do not be scared, the future will be alot brighter, safer, healthier, and easier if you do this. The scary thing would be to continue down the road you are on and the road you have already traveled. Be honest with your doctor tell him the truth. That you have been struggling with a eating disorder and you need some help. They are medical professionals and understand what going on. Good luck, and if you ever need to chat you can e mail me tritanbear@yahoo.com I have been down those roads and I am always glad to help.
2006-12-03 15:11:42 · answer #3 · answered by TritanBear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say, good luck, and try to find a doctor who will help you from a "body Positive" viewpoint. By this, I mean a doctor who will help you without making you hate your body, or feeding into that. My Step mom introduced me to the body positive movement, and I think it's pretty cool. Here's a web site that might introduce you to more of what I mean: http://www.overcomingovereating.com/ I understand that you might feel stupid; there's a lot of shame around eating disorders. However, eating disorders are very common, and your doctor shouldn't make you feel like you're a bad person for having a disorder. Good luck!
2006-12-03 13:33:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually, you will tell your doctor's nurse, which is easier. the nurse will ask you some questions while she is taking your blood pressure, temperature, pulse etc. the nurse will probably say: so whats going on or what symptoms are you having. and that's when you can say what is bothering you. i hope that you will be going to a psychologist. eating disorders are usually related to emotions secondary to abuse of some kind. what ever happened to you or whatever is happening to you is your real problem. i certainly hope is was your past so you can start getting over it. i wish i knew more about you. sounds like you are headed in the right direction though. you may email me with more info if you would like. it helps to talk to someone about your problems, and i have been through it all. i just imagined myself being in a worse condition that i was currently in. i know, that sounds horrible, but, that is how i coped growing up. there are so many thins you can do to get over this eating disorder. don't give up. you are all you have. GOD bless you!!!
2006-12-03 13:16:25 · answer #5 · answered by REALLY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been seeing your doctor regularly, it's a good bet that he or she already suspects your disorder. But it's hard to confront patients, physicians - just like other people - want to be liked. Your doctor will breath an enormous sigh of relief when you broach the subject. Beware, however. The treatment of eating disorders typically requires a specialist, so don't be surprised when you are referred to a psychiatrist.
2006-12-03 13:12:20 · answer #6 · answered by Andrew F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember - doctors are bound by patient confidentiality laws so you should not be afraid of someone else finding out.
truth be told - if anyone is very close with you - they probably already know but are afraid to confront you. because eating disorders are the most destructive of disorders that actually tear apart people close to us and effect others more than you know.
back to the doc thing. tell him/ her. they are honest, direct and friendly as well as professionals on any medical subject.
they can be a great friend in your time of need plus have the answers you need.
2006-12-03 13:10:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would be surprised to know how much your doctor has already experienced. The best way to face any obstacle in life is to confront it head on. Don't be embarrased to talk to your Doc, that is what he/she is there for. They want you to be healthy and believe me, they've seen it all before so you won't be a shock. Just keep your head up and be honest with yourself and those who are here to help you. Good luck!
2006-12-03 13:15:20 · answer #8 · answered by lalila0007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't back out! You are being brave already by getting help. The only way to tell your doctor is to come out and say it. Explain what you've been doing, why, how long, how much weight you lost, any physical symptoms you have, etc. The more he/she knows, the more they can help you get better.
2006-12-03 13:08:20 · answer #9 · answered by Erin* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Walk into that office and say "you should know i have and eating disorder right, I finally want to get some help." You should know that your doctor will always help you.
2006-12-03 13:11:16 · answer #10 · answered by hollydogluver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋