I've been dating this girl for about a month, known her for 2 years, ever since we started dating she has been really bossy, like I have to stop what I am doing to come see her or talk to her, if I tell her I don't feel good, she says "It's always about you, always about how YOU feel". When I talk to her on the phone I can never get her to hang up, I tell her I am going to bed because i have to work in the morning and she won't let me hang up, keeps saying "talk to me 5 more minutes",which turns into another hour! On Thanksgiving she insisted I come over her house,even though I told her i wanted to spend the day at home, she argued with me for 20 minutes about it and got mad because I didn't go, said my reasons were stupid. Now she's at the point where she gets on to me for spending my money! I get bitched at for buying a pack of gum because I did not save that 25 cents...has anyone else been in this situation? am I the one in the wrong here? what should I do?
2006-12-03 04:31:56 · 7 answers · asked by sinphony_of_destruktion 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You definitely have a control freak on your hands. If you care about her don't just dump her, try talking to her about it and telling her that some things need to change. She'll be pissed at first but if she really cares about you she will understand and try to change her ways. If she doesn't then I say get out while you can.
2006-12-03 04:49:20 · answer #1 · answered by PHAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOAH sounds like you got a control freak I say dump her and be with someone that is respectful towards you and will not ***** at you for buying a pack of gum talk to her and tell her to change the attitude or your out of there !
2006-12-03 12:35:21 · answer #2 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn, boy. Go to her house and get your nuts out of the jar of formaldehyde on her fireplace mantle. Reinsert them and walk off. Leave her in your caller ID only so you can immediately see her calling and let voicemail take the call.
I'm telling you to ditch the crazy wench. This will only get worse....
2006-12-03 12:39:25 · answer #3 · answered by lmcbuilder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid fast! It sounds like my ex wife. Looking back she was like that when I met her and even worse 19 years later so we divorced. You have been warned!
2006-12-03 12:42:15 · answer #4 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
men control women. not the other way around! haha...just kidding...
tell her how u feel..it always work this way...
if she love u she will change....
ask her to be fair...
being together shd be happy on both side....
2006-12-03 12:38:14 · answer #5 · answered by unknown (male) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude just let her go ruin sumone elses life
2006-12-03 12:35:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump her. women are evil
2006-12-03 12:33:59 · answer #7 · answered by DA-LL /Male/ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋