ok i have fallen for a girl who just drives me crazy. and i tell her so but i dont kno how to just go for the kill. its like i am stuck in one area. she broke my heart at one point like 3 years ago but thats in the past, i adore her but i dont know how to get to her. when we talk its amazing, i make her laugh a lot and we have so much fun at lunch and whenever i see her in the halls, yet i just dont know how to go for the kill. i dont wanna sound retarded or anything, i just I .... dont kno
2006-12-03 04:31:13 · 6 answers · asked by Fortew3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The Kill?? If you keep thinking of her as Game, you will never make her attainable. It sounds as if you two have a good friendship, and while things may not have worked out in the past I'm sure you could just say "hey let's hang out this weekend" and go from there. Now if you already do that and your trying to get out of the friends zone than you might just TELL her, I'd really like to see if we can't be more than friends, but just be ready to accept if she does/doesn't. A lot of times we gals hate to lose our best friends because we weren't great girlfriends. You might just assure her that if it doesn't work out that you all can make being friends work. (if you can make that true). You might even tell her that you don't want her to be your biggest regret at the 10 Yr Reunion because you didn't ask her out? She might even be flattered.
2006-12-03 04:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont bother with her. I am her. Well in a sense... Ive had afriend for 8 years that liked me and I would always lead him on, and when he would ask me out I would say no. I was mean, and I regret it now. But im sure she knows you like her. If she wanted to be with you, she would make the first move. But this is what I recommend. Tell her, "I know you know how I feel about you. I understand you might need time to think it over but I really need to know soon. Would you be interested in us trying out a relationship more than friends? I go crazy thinking about you and Its hard not knowing if it can or cant be something more." Give her a day or two to talk to her friends (Cus thats what we do) and than ask her what she decided.
2006-12-03 12:36:09 · answer #2 · answered by Indiana Jonas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say that you should tell her again how you feel about her now and that she did hurt you in the past but you are willing to give it another try because you care about her alot. Tell her what you have told me in here and see where it goes from there. I mean if she doesn't feel the same don't stop being friends with her let her know that no matter what you will reamain her friend and you care about her dearlie and will be there if she needs anything. This is comming from a girls point of view.
2006-12-03 12:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by Brooklyn Mae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you had the guts to say it on the web you must really like her! but wut im trying to say is that you will never know when it will be your last day to live not that im trying to scare you but i have had boyz like me and i tottally liked them back but i said that i did not so now i really wish i would of just
gone for it
So go 4 it!!! think about it what is the worst that can happen?!?!?!
2006-12-03 12:38:08 · answer #4 · answered by Milk shake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, have you considered talking to her??? Have you aksed her out?? She may feel the same way, or she may just consider you a friend. You'll never know if you don't ask.
2006-12-03 12:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its simple juss tell her how you feel about her and if she would like to go out sometime and if she doesnt feel the same it might hurt but you will never no if you dont try
2006-12-03 12:34:56 · answer #6 · answered by teddy bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋