my mom's company is holding a christmas dinner next week, and she really wants me to go with her because no one else is available. on the same night, i am scheduled for a quiz from my class with my final exam the following week so i think the teacher will go over exam materials the night of my mom's dinner. plus i have a paper to turn in
i've already told her that i have a class and i could skip it to attend dinner with her. I've already skipped the class a few times, so i really don't want to skip anymore seeing that the exam is coming up.
should i stick to my duties?
2006-12-03 04:13:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your mother should not put you in a position to ignore an obligation to make her feel more comfortable. You have committed to further your education and she should be understanding and supportive by not putting you in a position to have to choose.
You need to go to class and tell her that you are not going with her to her party. Hopefully she will do the right thing and be understanding and supportive.
Good luck on your final.
2006-12-03 04:22:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grades are far more important than putting in an appearance at a company dinner, especially when it will be for adults. Once you graduate and earning a decent living you will have plenty of time to go to dinner with Mom, and I'm sure if Mom sits down and thinks about it she'll agree. She may think your the only available person to go but set with her and go over a few other members of the family, maybe there is another that would enjoy a grown-up party to attend
2006-12-03 12:25:25 · answer #2 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't responsible for providing an "escort" for your mom, no matter how well-intentioned you may be.
Your education is very important, you may need the information provided at the upcoming class to help you pass your final exam. Although you could "skip" the class, it's not a good idea.
Your mom is perfectly capable of attending the Christmas Dinner by herself, I'm sure she will meet up with some friends once she gets there.
Her first priority should be "you" and your welfare. It isn't in your best interest to "skip" your class to be her escort! It doesn't make you a "bad" daughter or mean you don't "care" about your mom if you decline her invitation.
Good luck.
2006-12-03 12:20:14 · answer #3 · answered by Mugsy's Place 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to class. The knowledge you gain by going to school will last you a life time. What your mother is asking is only for one night and it's to benefit her only. This class is a necessity for you, the dinner isn't. Your mother should not put you in a position where you have to chose between attending class or being her date. Is this a couples only dinner or can she go alone. She can go with another co-worker who doesn't have a date. If your mom puts her mind to it, she can come up with a date and it won't be you.
2006-12-03 21:40:34 · answer #4 · answered by merry59 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think what's more important,
A dinner that can happen another time,
or
An educational opportunity that does not happen again?
2006-12-03 12:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by Quizgrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take care of your classes first...your mother should understand. Maybe she can find a friend to go with her.
2006-12-03 13:25:55 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mother should realize that your schooling is far more important than any party.
Come right out and say NO and then explain why AGAIN!!
2006-12-03 12:51:05 · answer #7 · answered by Kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the teacher to give you the work to take home. make time to do the work and go with your mum .... she really needs you :>
2006-12-03 12:18:44 · answer #8 · answered by honey d 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sure
2006-12-03 12:18:19 · answer #9 · answered by esz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋